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My self-summary
Most of us are here hoping to find one person who’s simply fabulous and finds us utterly fabulous as well, with whom we’re well matched in specific ways.

I want that, too. And to be completely transparent, I want that for my daughter as well.

I appreciate kindness, thoughtfulness, curiosity, honesty, consideration, caring, responsibility, and dependability ...those qualities make a man DAMN sexy. A man who is kind, emanates love, is positive, intelligent, patient, caring, gentle but not wimpy, stands up for his convictions...those are very attractive qualities!

Yes, really. Those inner qualities make the man.

Please ONLY read on and message me if you truly know yourself to be that kind of man.

The basics: kind, fit, present, happy, deep, healthy, spiritual-not-religious, sensual, nature-loving, warm, loving, devoted parent, authentic, grounded, excellent communicator, and responsible woman seeks male counterpart.

For me, a relationship is a spiritual/growth path. As are, frankly, most relationships!

I live a healthy lifestyle and am active via dance and primarily outdoor physical activities.

The kind of dance I do… It’s like a great workout, meditation, and exhilarating game all at once. I always feel amazing after 2 hours of dancing with friends!

I have a huge heart and do love children, yup, even those who aren’t mine. Good thing, considering I work in education. I see the unique being each child is, and how they are continually in the process of forming themselves. It's a privilege for adults to be part of a child's formative years.
What I’m doing with my life
Being. Loving. Learning. Moving my body. Doing all that while joyfully raising my fabulous daughter.
I’m really good at
Learning. Being present and loving. Dancing. Loving. Learning, learning, learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
If finding this out ever makes it to my priority list, I'll ask people. Don't think that'll happen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Fresh, delicious, organic and raw. Like me :-)

Books, shows, movies- any that nourish or feed me in some way, either teaching me something I'm interested in, evoking emotions, or showing me beauty.

Music: eclectic, not mainstream.
Six things I could never do without
Six schmix.

Sleep. Being present. Love. My health, my children, my family, my friends. Sensuality. Nature. Being creative. Sleep. Spirituality. Being. People with whom I share love. Humor. My brain. Laughter. Friendship. Dance. Loving touch. Creativity. Energy in all it's forms. Time to myself. Time intimately connecting with my beloved (when he finally finally finds me) :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- ceasing thinking
- being present
- growing
- the next fun/pleasurable/exhilarating/creative things I'll be doing
- growing evermore as a mother
- noticing beauty and goodness
- when I can next do those activities that make my heart and body sing!
- how I will meet the man who thrills me, whom I thrill, and who has a heart big enough to love my daughter completely.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with my daughter, or with friends, heading to hot springs, out to dance, going to nature. Or just relaxing, aaaaahhhhhh the end of the workweek...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Mr. Rogers (minus the religious stuff) is my ideal man. Laugh if you must; it's his inner qualities that I appreciate!

Sometimes, on my way to my car, I run my shopping cart in the parking lot and hop on...

I have a very keen sense of smell, and appreciate people's natural, clean scent over chemical perfumes/colognes/deo.

I know how to use power tools. I have felled trees.
You should message me if
- you actually read my whole profile! and I can tell because of your articulate message referring to specifics from my profile that make you think/feel we may be a good match.
The two of us