75 Alameda, United States
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My self-summary
I believe life is enhanced by friendship, affection, companionship and intimacy--in all the ways these manifest themselves--and I would like to connect with a woman of similar perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Wasting away in Margaritaville
I’m really good at
Practical crisis management
Fixing things made before chip technology
Keeping my word
The first things people usually notice about me
My disheveled hair--what's left of it
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Double Helix, The Selfish Gene
Movies: Sophie's Choice, The Pawnbroker (most wrenching)
No Country for Old Men
Shows, music, food: Whatever a friend likes works for me
The six things I could never do without
My daughters
Except for those we love, we can do without everything--if we must--except shelter, food, water, air.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recall the Dagwood cartoon with a "thoughts" bubble above both Blondie and Dagwood's heads?
Blondie's was crowded; Dagwood's was empty.
It's a male thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wishing you were embracing me, and I you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This confession is dependent on total trust in one's partner.
You should message me if
You will not feel hurt or rejected or inadequate if we do not mesh--remembering that I face these same risks as a "suitor."

I do not want to cause pain to anyone, nor do I want to feel it in this endeavor. Let's be gentle with each other.

You understand that most of us find a person to love and be loved by out a very small number of contacts. There is not that "one and only"--but there is that "only you and me."