58Silver Spring, United States
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My self-summary
I still believe that love is our finest instinct, a sensible, but transcendent urge designed by nature to keep special people we can depend on close. I’ve been divorced for about 15 years with no children, and am looking for chemistry and shared values, intimacy and pleasure with a woman whose qualities compliment and reflect my own.

Despite no kids I get interns sometimes, and rented a room to a young protégé over the last year so she could live in DC while working at a museum. She left for graduate school in art conservation in the fall, so now I'm an empty nester.
What I’m doing with my life
art conservator.
I’m really good at
I'm a pretty good mentor.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, obviously how handsome, witty and charming I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Art and politics, Sunday NYT... The Atlantic... and Salon. Some favorites books are... John Berger "Ways of Seeing"; John Dewey "Art as Experience"; and William James.

Classic Soul and Old School R&B, 60's 80's, symphony and opera.
Six things I could never do without
Music and Arts
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing at home with a glass of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The beard is pretty recent.
Although not private, I have no interest in anyone, anywhere on the right of the political spectrum ... any form of Republican, Libertarian, Trump apologist etc.
You should message me if
If you are European or live in Europe, or are capable of living there, and would like to meet an American man and maybe live in Amsterdam.

* According to The OkCupid - 'YOUR TYPE OF GIRL TEST' - my type is the "Girl Next Door"... though she might be an artist or an academic too.

I have dual US/EU citizenship (Ireland) but haven't lived in Europe for more than a summer. Now I'm considering exploring whether it might be viable and desirable to emigrate from the US to Amsterdam, NL.

Irrespective of your dating goals, I’d love to communicate with women who live, or have lived overseas.
The two of us