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My self-summary
I am only interested in making new friends.

I live with my husband, XCountryDavid, with whom I am quite happy. I am a housewife, a gamer, a secular humanist, socially radically progressive, an intersectional feminist, introverted(though I enjoy spending time with friends and romantic partners), nerdy, and unapologetically antitheist and anti-spiritualist.

I vie for peace and balance, and I seek a state of being of pure love and compassion. I value logic, honesty, and depth of feeling, passion, and I want to connect with others who value these things. I wish to discuss ideas, and grow as a person, become ever more socially aware and conscientious.

If you check my match answers, you will discover that I was polyamorous, which conflicts with my profile, because my husband and I have decided to be monogamous, at least for a while, and I don't feel like digging through all the questions, to re-answer them.

You are racist.
You are religious.
You are a republican.
You are a libertarian.
You think anarchy is viable.
You think there are only two genders.
You deny climate change.
You think vaccines cause autism.
You think autism is something that needs to be cured.
You think the moon landing was a hoax.
You think that Sandy Hook was a hoax.
You think 911 was a US government conspiracy.
You're afraid Obama is coming for your guns.
You think astrology is legitimate.

...because I just don't have time for your shit.

This is a work in progress...

If you message me, I will respond.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning, Evolving, Loving My Wonderful Husband, Cuddling Puppies, Defying The Status Quo, and Playing my PS4.
I’m really good at
Helping others, playing video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sweetness and compassion, my intelligence, and how tall I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: The Sword of Shannara, The Elfstones of Shannara, The Wishsong of Shannara, by Terry Brooks; Meditations, by Marcus Aurelius;

MOVIES: Legend(1984 Fantasy), What Dreams May Come, The Last Samurai, Serenity, The Matrix, The Dark Crystal, Dark City, The Dark Knight, Inception, John Wick, The Neverending Story, Silverado, Unforgiven, 3:10 To Yuma, Bunraku, Big Trouble In Little China, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, District 9, Constantine, Last Of The Mohicans, Lady In The Water, Gremlins, The Grey, Message In A Bottle, No Country For Old Men, Puss 'N Boots, Reign Of Fire, The Prestige, RED, RED 2, The Patriot, Traitor, Riddick Trilogy, Taken, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, Ronin, The Town, True Grit, Unleashed, Troy, The Warrior's Way, 13 Assassins, The Good The Bad and The Weird, I am Legend, Smokin Aces, Hero, Fearless, Watchmen, The Inside Man, The International, Shoot 'Em Up; Korean Cinema

TV SHOWS: Jessica Jones, Lie To Me, Luther, Person Of Interest, Luke Cage, The Originals, Penny Dreadful, Agents of Shield, The Blacklist, Blindspot / Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Stargate SG-1, The Practice, Boston Legal, House, The Mentalist

MUSIC: Lisa Gerrard, Garbage, Tori Amos, Hans Zimmer, Poe, Tears For Fears, Rob Dougan; I like some of most genres, including: Rock, Classic Rock, Punk Rock, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Metal, Prog Metal, Death Metal, Black Metal, Doom Metal, Post Punk, Cold Wave, Ethereal Wave, Jazz, Bluegrass, Folk, Swing, Hip Hop, Soul, Rap, New Age, Industrial, and more.

FOOD: My husband's Fauxganoff, Penne and Pep, Bacon Burger, Pilaf, Yellow Rice and Beef, and more.

GAMES: Elder Scrolls Online, Fallout 4, Diablo III: Reaper of Souls, Borderlands Games, Dynasty Warriors 8: Empires / Skyrim, Fallout 3 / Romance of the Three Kingdoms 8, Final Fantasy XII, Shadow of the Colossus, Need For Speed: Underground 2 and Hot Pursuit, Soul Calibur III, Madden '07 / Neverwinter Nights / Final Fantasy Tactics, Suikoden II, Vandal Hearts 1 & 2, Need For Speed 3: Hot Pursuit, Tekken 3, Command & Conquer, X-COM: UFO Defense / Final Fantasy 4 & 6, The Legend Of Zelda: A Link To The Past, Super Metroid, Super Castlevania IV, Actraiser 1 & 2, Super Street Fighter II: The New Challengers, Ogre Battle, Dungeon Master, Super Mario World, Mario Kart, Contra III: Alien Wars / Master of Magic / Final Fantasy, Dragon Warrior, The Legend of Zelda, Zelda II: The Adventures of Link, Kung Fu, Bad Dudes, Shadowgate, Ice Hockey, Double Dribble, RC Pro-AM, Super Mario Bro. 2, Mega Man, Castlevania 2 & 3, Contra, Iron Sword, Metroid, Battle For Olympus / Tetris, Excitebike / Moon Patrol
The six things I could never do without
My Wonderful Husband
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The issues I struggle with every day, regarding my mental and emotional wellness, physical health, safety, my husband's and my financial security and future.

Racial injustice, misogyny, transmisogyny, rape culture, ableism, religious delusion and fanaticism, this crumbling country, animal cruelty, the suffering of others in myriad situations...

I think you get the picture.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, playing ESO, Diablo III, Fallout 4, a Borderlands Game, Skyrim: Special Edition, or Dynasty Warriors 8: Empires, on the PS4.

Or watching Netflix with my hubby.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is one person for whom I'd immediately return to polyamory, but she doesn't even know I like her like that.
You should message me if
You find me interesting, and think we might become friends.