To determine the measure of a decent man... It's in the strength he displays under pressure, the sensitivity he unashamedly expresses & his willingness to reveal vulnerability, even at the risk of being hurt...! It's found in the honesty_blu3_ & truth of his words, his unselfish actions, the genuineness of his life & the values he lives by...!
To determine the measure of a man, it's not by comparing him to other men, either weaker or stronger...! U will know when meeting a real decent man, by how much U trust him & believe in him...!
Above all how much his life & character enhances YOURS...! Otherwise don't stick around !!!
In fact there is no better time to be happy than right now...! If not, then when?
Your life will always be full of challenges & frustrations...! It's better to admit that much & to be happy in spite of it all...! U gathers your options & make the best judgment...! U convince yourself, hope & anticipate it's the perfect choice. Unfortunately it turns out the opposite...!
Here U should stop; Evaluate matters; Take a deep breath & go on; Don't look back...! Just memories & recollections U will carry on, plus the lessons learned at that Particular stop of your life...! Live & enjoy the moment. Relax make the best of your journey...! Enjoy the road & view...! Be as happy as possible in your ride...! It's your choice to make it "Happy & Pleasant" NOT "Miserable & Depressing" one...! Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. And don't judge life by one difficult season....!
There isn't road to happiness...! Happiness is the road...! Make it a happy road...!
Movies: A Movie having good store behind ...
Music: Blues & Jazz...
Food: Arabic (Lebanese) & Italian...
In one word "Decent"! As decent as it can be; All what decency means; additional to total respect ...! Frankly; Nobody can dominate the other, no one is perfect either but at least has sufficient honestly & strength to point out the dreadful habits?
My partner mate should have her own personality & character… Feel & behave like the BOSS...! But deep inside she knows She is not & absolutely KNOW WHO IS...?
Must feel that my partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise will find it difficult to sustain the relation... (Brain & Heart Turns Me On)