38 Madison, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a great catch. I'm honest, creative, genuine, artistic, passionate, sarcastic, responsible, respectful, down-to-earth, empathic, and have an incredible family and wonderful friends.

I'm financially stable, but money and materialism will never define me. I'm romantic and emotionally open. I enjoy WI sports, live music, art, yoga, meditation, and mindfulness. I've recently given up drinking to maintain a healthy lifestyle, but I'm not worried or judgmental about what you do. I'm also a proud INFJ for people who know what that is.

PS: I can't see "likes" so just send a message! Would love to hear from you!
What I’m doing with my life
Music has always been my number one passion: I work for a digital sheet music company right here in Madison. In addition, I play drums on a professional level (my discography is 20 albums and growing), I compose and produce my own experimental music, and do some private lessons on the side. I've played in bands that have opened for The Fray, Hanson, Kenny Wayne Shepherd, Gin Blossoms, Natty Nation, and have toured all over the US.

I am very much into yoga, mindfulness, and meditation (I guess you could say I'm spiritual however religion is not for me). I love the Packers, Badgers (UW Alumni), and Brewers and am quite outdoorsy - I enjoy playing softball, volleyball, and kickball - taking walks in the woods (especially in the fall), going ATVing, horseback riding, kayaking, pontoon cruises on the lake at my parent's cabin up north, that sort of thing.
I’m really good at
Being an amazing uncle to my three year-old nephew and four month-old niece, as well as being a great son, brother, and friend. Also, playing drums, composing music, sonic creations, pool volleyball, softball, kickball, and sand volleyball.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shaved head, glasses, smile, and sense of humor. I've also received many compliments on my laugh, including one recently on 7/2, actually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shows: The Twilight Zone, Ink Master, Archer, Dateline.
Movies: Kingpin, Big Lebowski, Caddyshack, Saving Private Ryan, Ip Man, Team America, The Hunt For Red October, Terminator 2, Predator, Touching the Void, King of Kong, Airplane!, Fargo.
Music: Frank Sinatra, then tons of music in many different styles. I like darker, more thought-provoking music (ambient, experimental electronic, avant-garde, EDM, etc): Currently TOOL, Kaki King, King Crimson, Hammock, Sigur Ros, Biosphere, Robert Fripp, Brian Eno, BT, Carbon Based Lifeforms, Moo, Bjork, Annie Lennox, Imogen Heap, etc.
Food: Italian, Mexican, my brother's (and my Mom's) amazing cooking.
Radio: I love old-time radio. The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes (w/ Basil Rathbone and Nigel Bruce), Yours Truly Johnny Dollar, The Whistler, Suspense, X-Minus One, as well as The Twilight Zone are awesome.
The six things I could never do without
1. Family and Friends
2. Music
3. Art
4. Drums
5. Humor
6. Ambient Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My legacy. Philosophy. Mindfulness. Living in the moment. Why my personality profile says I'm "less trusting" than the general male populous on OKC. You couldn't find a more trustworthy person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with family and friends, going out on the town, dancing to hip-hop/EDM music, performing, watching movies, it all depends on my mood.
You should message me if
You think bald is beautiful. You respect that I don't do one night stands: I'd rather develop a solid conversation, friendship, and foundation first and see where it goes from there! Chemistry, personality, and being fit are very important to me.