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My self-summary
I'm into kinky nerds who like to think, I want to be a game designer, I am currently a web designer, I'm a feminist, and I put way too much thought into this bio. I'm humble and I admire intelligence, genuine honesty, and the oxford comma.

40 miles is about my limit, If you're further from that you better be my god damn dream girl. I've done it before, I'm not particularly interested in doing it again. If you live near Santa Clarita or Magic Mountain, or know where those places are we should be good.
For some reason everyone I date is either it Long Beach or Palmdale. I don't know why but I want to break that trend.

About Me:
We are all just grown children with responsibilities, experiences, and knowledge. The sooner you recognize that the better your life will be.

Let me start by saying that I've learned from past relationships that relationships are not here to make your life better. They're here to change your life, for better or for worse. They're a game changer. My life is pretty good so I'm not really into that idea right now so unless you're looking to change my mind about the previous statement I'm looking primarily for casual, but strong emotional connections. This doesn't necessarily mean friends with benefits, but it doesn't mean that I'm not up for it. I'm content with just meeting you, talking to you, and seeing the way things naturally go.

I'm a 24 years old, 6'2 (6'4 according to people who claim to be 6'3 they're not) and kinda lanky. If you're into the awkward nerd type of look I'm right up your alley. I would like to note that people have unanimously said I look better in person, so please note. Also I'm not Michael Cera, I have some backbone and my awkwardness is not shyness. I'm actually more shameless than anything.

I'm a sapiophile, a wannabe writer, a feminist, nerdy creative type trying to get into crafts, tabletop gaming, and more adventures in woodsy areas.
I've been a gamer since I was like 5 and if you're into video games yourself that's a plus in my book, but not necessary.

I'm currently doing graphics and web design as a career but I'm hoping to become a developer one day in the video game industry. I've got a world I've been waiting to build since I was 5 and it needs to get out.

I love camping and exploring new places urban or natural.

I****around way more often than I'm probably portraying myself on here. I like to randomly switch personality from being like a retarded child to being a Kurt Vonnegut wannabe commenting on the world and all its problems. If you feel like I'm too serious based on this wall of text, you haven't met me yet.

I'm definitely the kind of person you need to get to know before you can really get a grasp of me. If you want to meet someone who's going to be real with you, have some cool conversations, and you're willing to keep an open mind I can guarantee you won't regret meeting me.

What I am looking for:
If you're geeky, nerdy, crafty, interested in game design, spiritual, creative (in all of its forms), curious, intellectual, or into BDSM or Kink in any way, I want to hear from you.

Brains, curiosity, craftiness and handcuffs turn me on.
If you pride yourself in being weird, if you always ask questions and want to know more, if you want to be bound and gagged during sex, if you're blunt and straight forward, if you're shy and cute, if you're kind of a hipster but not a****about it, if you consider yourself a genuinely nice person, if you've always sort of stood out in the crowd
I want to talk to you

Yes I am emphasizing bondage & BDSM. I'm into it. I can do things without it, but I prefer if my partner is also into it. I can be as vanilla or deviant as you want me to be, but all things considered I'm into it and that's not going to change, so if you're a kink, I'd like to talk about some fantasies.
And for the record I am a Dom. I like to be on top, if you don't know what that means feel free to ask, I'm not a****:P

Oh, and also you need to love cuddling. I really love cuddling.

If you are as entertained by this:
As this:

We should definitely talk
What I’m doing with my life
I've been doing Graphic Design professionally for about 5 years and Web Design for about 2. I recently moved into a nice house in Castaic, and I'm looking to work less in an office and more from home so I can have more free time during the day. I have a lot of goals and cool little ideas but I just need a little bit of a push to be motivated enough to do them.

I've always been passionate about games and it's my childhood dream to be a Video Game Designer for a living.
I’m really good at
Changing this shit way too god damn much, creative writing, graphic design, web design, creative bondage techniques, eating too much, not cleaning my room, getting really distracted trying to go somewhere, understanding shit on a deeper level, strategy, marketing, finding cheap shit, finding quarters on the ground, making people really uncomfortable and comfortable at the same time, touching technology and having it work for some reason.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look Jewish
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fahrenheit 451, Ishmael, Tao Te Ching, Allegory of The Cave, Breakfast of Champions, Gulliver's Travels, Utopia, Introduce me to more books, I'm trying to get more into reading. Or if you'll read to me, even better.

Movies: Cloud Atlas, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Up, Everything by Miyazaki, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle, Princess Mononoke, The Matrix Avatar (you know, the blue people one.), The Truman Show Rise of the Guardians, Mr. Nobody, V for Vendetta

Video Games: Fallout 3, Fire Emblem, The Legend of Zelda, Assassin's Creed, Mass Effect, Bioshock Guild Wars 2, Pikmin, Skyrim, Starcraft, MMOs, Amnesia: The Dark Descent, Penumbra, SCP 087-b SCP: Containment Breach, ESO, Lisa

TV: (when I actually watch TV) Colbert Report (god rest its wondering soul) How I Met Your Mother I should note that I haven't watched cable for like 9 years.
Youtube: EverymanHybrid, Marble Hornets, Vinesauce
Anime: Avatar: The Last Airbender Death Note Elfen Lied Fullmetal Alchemist Legend of Korra Phantom: Requiem for the Phantom Kiba Code Geass Attack on Titan I'm very very picky about anime since I watched Death Note. It really raised the bar.

Music: Gorillaz, Damon Albarn, Bonobo, Trip-hop, Indie music, Modest Mouse, RJD2, Grizzly Bear, Tally Hall, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Cage the Elephant, Muse, Radiohead, Queens of the Stone Age, Seawolf, Emancipator, Orka Veer, Saltillo, A Perfect Circle, Tool, Eminem, Deltron 3030, Tyler, The Creator, Foster the People, anything unique

Food: If it's spicy I will probably put it in my mouth.
Six things I could never do without
My lungs are pretty important
Video Games
Free time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If the early bird catches the worm, the early worm gets fucking eaten. Just saying. Besides, the late bird gets to chill with the Owls. Which is infinitely cooler than chilling with a bunch of finches that stress about eating worms in the morning. "But Mr. Owl, if you stay up so late you won't eat worms in the morning" "Bitch, I eat dogs"

things of this nature go through my mind alot ^
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm into bondage and BDSM/roleplaying
I'm dominant in bed but like to keep us strictly equals outside of the bedroom, so there's that.

Also I own Tarot Cards and can recognize different kinds of stones just by looking at them. I used to be really into new age-y spiritual stuff, I used to be more into it, but lately have fallen out of touch, still the idea of it interests me. I'm a natural skeptic, I've only gotten into this stuff because it was intriguing to me, but after having seen auras and felt some things for myself, there are definitely some things that I believe, and even if Tarot Cards are not necessarily spiritual in any way, they're a good way at scrying into your own subconscious, and can function as sort of a conversation with the parts of yourself you didn't realize were there.

I'm pretty open, so much so that most of my friends know what I look like naked and vice versa. So don't worry about crossing lines or offending me. If you have that same sort of mentality, even better.
You should message me if
You're the thinking, creative type and want someone to have cool conversations with. You want a free Tarot Card reading and would enjoy my company. You're into bondage and want someone who is respectful about it and you don't have to worry about consent issues. You're lonely and want someone to talk to, or cuddle with, I'm friendly.

I like unconventional/alternative people, and I appreciate anyone who can motivate me to get out of the house. Dyed hair is attractive, and science nerds get me wet. If I can learn from you, talk about cultures, or geek out about random fandoms together (or if you know what Fire Emblem is or you're into Zelda we're pretty much already friends) I'd like to meet you.
The two of us