Anaïs_Wilde
31 Melbourne, Australia
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My self-summary
My escort name would be 'Ivan Multiples'.

Quote of the Day:
“The 'Pokemon Go' trance vibrator, walk around your town and find a bunch of people… just sitting down, out of breath, napping, one or two hugging each other, one person is off crying.. Just real into Pokemon.”

- If you are a "straight" male - I'm not interested.
You're not the emotional hand grenade with a heart of gold for me. Performative Social Dominance in Masculinity I find incredibly tiresome. Best wishes though, in your search for meaning :)

- Are Men sexualized as status symbols ?
"If you don't want to be treated like a commodity, don't try to act like one". - Seth Godin

My theories about profiles is they should serve two purposes; giving a sense of the person, and an excuse to start a conversation. I feel the first one comes out in just writing sincerely, and the second in trusting people to judge for themselves.

Now lets define terms; 'Genuine Respect'. Genuine respect being according to my personal definition an honesty of language, a trust that someone is independent enough to apply their own values, an appreciation of mood, and a respect for the other person - their self efficacy and self determination.

I don't like to use labels, but I don't mind that other people like to self identify. At their best I like to think of labels like signposts, which help you find where the interesting and understanding people are. I just personally try not to get too hung up on gender; because physically if you live long enough, everyone gets boobs and a moustache.

My preference is to talk to someone for a while, see people as people. And whether it's a friend with whom I go clothes shopping, or put on music and prance around as I take them off; for them to appreciate me as a person, not a type. And to meet more people who feel the same way. Not wanting to be a cliche; I know, it's soo INFJ.
What I’m doing with my life
Hobby Photographer, Hobby Zine Writer. Currently discovering which of my projects may become self funding, while keeping my day job and taking contracts. Sort of like Marxisms idea of 'True Consciousness'; if you want to understand the people who do a job, you have to do their job.

If we make out, I will probably write up the story of how we met and give you a copy. It's often a relief to realize how chicken shit we both were. ^^"

I also do shoots for people's business cards and blogs. It's a great way to meet creative people and pimp each others projects :)
I’m really good at
Turning everything into an existential conundrum.
Resolving it with a super cool rad pun.
The first things people usually notice about me
More gymnast then gym. - I use to be a gymnast and swimmer.
And if you don't think I'm pretty, that's okay, we can stop talking :3
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-'Atomised' by Michel Houellebecq
-'The Picture of Dorian Gray' by Oscar Wilde
-'Watership Down' by Richard Adams
Are probably the three most influential books that have shaped how I think about life and narrative. -Although please don't judge me by Houellebecq. He's interesting, which isn't the same as right.

Also this is pretty funny :3
http://www.buzzfeed.com/isaacfitzgerald/do-you-even-alice-munro-bro

I am currently doing this thing where I read authors in the chronological order their books were published and pseudo-profile the authors changing opinions. So far I have ticked off most of Asimov's fictions, a lot of Frank Herbert and Orson Scott Card, as well as a fair bit of Harlan Ellison. I'm currently on the home stretch of doing the same to Terry Pratchett.

I will always eat the weirdest thing on the menu because I haven't had it before, and I will take a photo of it, and the menu to remember what it was. - Also food doesn't mind how long you took to get the lighting right.

Music isn't something that I feel defines my character, but here are some fun links:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDe2BTpX5wE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7TGNhVsa94
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QS4y_gHQrVw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Js-XbNj6Tk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3FITeQ-uIg
https://media.giphy.com/media/qfCUtrHHPwDKM/giphy.gif
The six things I could never do without
Hugs, companionship, camaraderie, emotional intimacy, affection, empowerment, creative projects, freewheeling fantastically vulgar conversation, independence, and space, all rate highly.

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Though my inner existentialist had an overwhelming desire to fill this gap with white space, some things in life are impossible..
like having 'one' chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing, Philosophy, Psychology, Art, Narrative, Politics, History, Meaning, Feelings, Friendships, Identity, Gender, Comparative Religion, distinguishing fantasy from reality, and appreciating both for what they are.
On a typical Friday night I am
At work.
My wishing chair needs new wings(!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I would much rather an honest friend, then a dishonest lover.
You should message me if
If you're just going to message me to ask "how big is your dick?"
Go spend the money now and find yourself the perfect fit.
http://vixen-creations.myshopify.com/collections/vixskin/realistic
both our time's are worth more then can be measured in inches.

I didn't message you first, but please don't feel blue.
It's the tone of your message, friendly intentions ring true.
Difference inspire's, I think it's an art.
Empathy, not sameness that grows all our hearts.

Would you like to tell me a story, or hear one instead?
Just go on adventures, or curl up in bed?
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