50 Arcata, United States
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My self-summary
I love fine art, great music and books, the ocean, going on dates.
I'm fascinated by the subject of sexuality, energy exchange, and alternative relationships/families. Intelligence makes me hot. I love men. I love women.

I'm mostly into dating women, at this point. I'm not seeking out romance, but I'm fairly skilled at being emotionally accessible even in casual situations. If the chemistry isn't right for something intimate, I'm easy to befriend.

I'm polyamorous and consider it an inborn sexual orientation, much like being bi. I would love to make some new poly friends.

I have recently moved back to Humboldt. The East Bay was just not for me; too busy, not very friendly.
What I’m doing with my life
That's a good question...experiencing, listening, learning, a little teaching now and then.
I'm beginning to recover from a crippling bout of chronic pain, but am still a bit slow moving. Activities that require lots of walking and standing are not my thing, currently, but I'm getting back into yoga, and would love to learn Tai Chi.
I’m really good at
Being myself, whatever that may mean in the moment. Bringing my whole self, as openly as possible, into every experience.
The first things people usually notice about me
My thick, silvery hair, usually
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This overwhelms me, too many things to list. Currently, I am reading a lot of non-fiction and adoring Thai, Cambodian, and Indian food, as well as sushi. I have several food allergies, which limits my choices, but is also inspiring me to get creative. I love funk, some fun hip hop, Cuban, African, some classic (though not much), goofy and alternative 80's, strange and beautiful/dark (I like funeral music from other countries, for example). I love discovering new music, and have been enjoying Beirut, Grizzly Bear, and Deerhoof. I'm a bit of a Radiohead fanatic.
I don't have a t.v. right now, but my favorite shows have been Battlestar, Lost, and Dexter. I also love a good British mystery, as well as British comedy panel shows, such as QI.
The six things I could never do without
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...Too many things.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no longer a typical night ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a private person.
You should message me if
You're ethical.