51Arcata, United States
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My self-summary
I love fine art, great music and books, good food, good conversation, going on dates.
I'm fascinated by the subject of sexuality, energy exchange, and alternative relationships/families. Intelligence makes me hot. I love men. I love women.

I'm mostly into dating women, at this point. I'm not seeking out romance, but I'm fairly skilled at being emotionally accessible even in casual situations. If the chemistry isn't right for something intimate, I'm easy to befriend.

I'm polyamorous and consider it a sexual orientation. I don't indulge in it often, but consider it everyone's right to choose what they want to do with their bodies/minds.
What I’m doing with my life
Cooking at a homeless facility, listening, learning, a little teaching now and then.
I'm making great progress in overcoming fibromyalgia. I work hard and love what I do.
I listen to music almost constantly. I'm enthralled with it.
I’m really good at
Being myself, whatever that may mean in the moment. Bringing my whole self, as openly as possible, into every experience.
The first things people usually notice about me
My thick, silvery hair, usually
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This overwhelms me, too many things to list. Currently, I am reading a lot of non-fiction and adoring Thai, Cambodian, and Indian food, as well as sushi. I have several food allergies, which limits my choices, but is also inspiring me to get creative.
I adore post-rock and post-punk.I love funk, some fun hip hop, Cuban, African, some classic (though not much), goofy and alternative 80's, strange and beautiful/dark (I like funeral music from other countries, for example). I love discovering new music, and have been enjoying Beirut, Grizzly Bear, Sigur Ros, Mogwai, and Deerhoof. I'm a bit of a Radiohead fanatic.
I don't have a t.v. right now, but my favorite shows have been Battlestar, Lost, Sherlock, Doctor Who. I also love a good British mystery, as well as British comedy panel shows, such as QI.
Six things I could never do without
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve at work. How to maintain balance between work and personal life.
On a typical Friday night I am
My Friday is currently Wednesday. Usually, I'm wondering if I have the energy to do anything but rest.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a private person.
You should message me if
You're ethical, you can spell, you are used to socializing in person (please, no introverted shut-ins, unless just as pen pals).
The two of us