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My self-summary
Wow, where do I start... I'm mostly polyamorous, though I can have some pretty intense mono tendencies. I like looking at pictures of myself in changing rooms. I appreciate trigger warnings. I am a survivor of sexual assault. I have a lot of mental illnesses, but by and large I am a successful and motivated person with lots of fulfilling personal relationships. I am a citizen of multiple countries. I love to talk about sex and politics. I make fun of MRAs. I have very conflicted feelings about children.

Oh, and most importantly: I am an atheist, I am a feminist, and I fight to <2!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm going to school for the next, roughly, 30 years of my life. Yeesh.
I’m really good at
writing, crafting, giving themed gifts by mail, finding music that people will like, teaching, doing therapy (on both ends), parsing treatises on ethics, networking, computering, working wood (twss), and actually quite a lot more. Oh, and especially reading and sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very opinionated, and am often loud (but reasonable) in expressing those opinions. Seriously, it's like I can scream with the fury and passion of twenty-one variously gendered humans.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Ethical Slut
Anything by Neal Stephenson, especially Cryptonomicon and Anathem.
The Fault in Our Stars
Gender Trouble
Sister Outsider
Kitchen Confidential

The Princess Bride
The Great Escape
La Haine

Grey's Anatomy
The West Wing

Anything with lyrics; anything without lyrics; find me at the right time and I probably like what you like.


Also, because I couldn't choose just one: Les Misérables fits into all of these categories. (Yes, even food. It feeds my soul.)
The six things I could never do without
The internet
Pharmaceutical drugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
atheism, feminism, intersectionality, sexual innuendo, and penetrating various cities.
On a typical Friday night I am
getting drunk and arguing on the internet. Also probably getting some action somewhere. But remember: just because someone has lots of sex doesn't mean you're entitled to lots of sex with them, and if someone is drunk you need to either not make sexual advances on them OR have an explicit relationship of implied consent. BASICALLY JUST DON'T BE A DOLPHIN.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
you're not a shitlord, you read at least one blog on FtB, you like to cuddle, you don't believe in gods, you do believe in science, you lol at Ayn Rand, and you want FALAFEL.