50Ottawa, Canada
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My self-summary

I'm 5'10, I have long dark hair. I am very easy going. I'm married, she is a wonderful lady, but no person can be everything that another wants. She knows about this profile, and is perfectly fine with it. There is room in my heart to love more than one person. I am poly.

Honesty is incredibly important to me, it is both expected and offered.

I'm Pagan, but it's perfectly ok if you aren't. I love cooking, curling and far too many things to mention here.

I am honourable, enthusiastic, and polyamorous
What I’m doing with my life
One thing that is going on in my life right now is the long walk back to being fit. A back injury took me out for a year, knee injuries have prevented me from running, but now that I've taken up walking again, I'm on my way back.

I'm working in the computer industry.

I live in the country now, but have come to realize that I want more land. I would like to build a house on a few hundred acres, and have it totally self sustaining. I have come to accept that this is a long term goal.
I’m really good at
Things that I love to do. Some examples are:

Thinking, Talking, Cooking, Curling, photography
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, well, it's usually the first thing they comment on anyway.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors are easier to name than the books, Terry Pratchett, William Diehl, David Morrell, JD Robb,Tami Hoag.

Movies: Just about any. I prefer ones that have decent lighting since Working as Director of Photography on a couple of short films. Most times I'm up for an intelligent comedy.

Music: Again, just about anything, it depends mostly on the context. I'm not one to complain unless it's too loud to carry on a conversation, if I'm trying to carry on a conversation that is...

Food: I feed people. It's what I do. I am a master of leftovers. Left on my own, the default would be a cheeseburger.
Six things I could never do without
Not can't, would choose not to: Honesty Communication Sex Love Friends Understanding
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How people in general could avoid miscommunication. The non linear time scale involved with the repetition of human history. What to cook for the upcoming meal. Why don't people ask the question they want the answer to. What a person's motivation was for doing what they just did.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing whatever sounds like fun at the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm so open to experiencing things that it often appears that I am indecicive, or have no opinions. This is of course horribly incorrect.
You should message me if
"Because you should" is one of the silliest motivations for doing something.

You might want to message me if you enjoy good conversation, you want an honest opinion about something (fashion and design are not included here)
The two of us