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My self-summary
Queerfemme, poly, anarchist-eco feminist.
Herbalist, at-home (mostly) vegan chef, community organizer.
What I’m doing with my life
Living in a rad, inspiring, and people-packed house in East Van. Making medicine and cooking food. Cuddling my dog. Facilitating violence prevention workshops with youth. Teaching yoga teachers anti-o. Learning to drive - and then driving to places like the indigenous leadership gathering, tar sands healing walk and bass coast. Growing food. Hiding in bed reading, watching tv, planning workshops and listening to music. Dancing whenever possible. On poles, on dance floors, on bodies.
I’m really good at
Being a huge nerd about plants.
Making medicine and offering it to people.
Ranting. Written or spoken.
Holding space for other people to express what's going on for them.
Flipping myself upside down.
Connecting people and turning ideas into realities.
Cooking food from our garden and feeding people.
Awkwardly talking about every detail of my day and all the complex nuances of my feelings. (Apparently this is endearing - though it often feels painfully awkward for me.)
Psyching myself up into agreeing to do way too many things (working on this).
Baking cookies.
Trying to get out of my head.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm passionate.. especially about politics (justice, decolonization, consent, non-monogamy - the list goes on) and feeeelings. I like to talk about feelings. And food. And community building. And emotional and healing justice.

My blue hair. Teenagers and kids often tell me they like my hair - and my tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Persistance: All ways butch and femme, Yes means Yes, 1984, Expect Resistance, Love Poems for God, Ethical Slut, Margaret Atwood, Black Girl Dangerous anthology, Playing the Whore and lots more...

Game of Thrones, Girls, Skins, Flight of the Conchords, Jon Stewart, Last Week Tonight and lots more...

Hmm so much to choose from.. right now I'm listening a lot to Holy Other, Austra, Emancipator, Bonobo, AltJ, The Neighbourhood, Daughter, Seven Lions, The Lumineers, Kim Possible, Test their Logik, Tycho, The National and Disclosure, J Phlip, The Knife, Lorde, That African, The Librarian, Sweet Anomaly, The Tailor, Erica Dee - does anyone actually read these lists?
Six things I could never do without
Herbal tea/tinctures.
Friends and lovers (often not that different).
Glitter (in various different mediums, all over me).
Being near water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything! I'm a frequent thinker (usually try to balance that out with lots of dancing and time in nature). Mostly I think about politics, justice, my friends and relationships, community care and music. Some things that have been on my mind lately:
Consent, communicating my needs, commitment, integrity in relationships, feminism (and what it means to me), queerness, being femme and being seen, solidarity, decolonization, herbalism, energy healing, tarot cards and how cute my dog is.

Plants. Love plants. Especially the medicine (and food) you can make, with plants.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on the season, I might be sitting on my roof with friends, dancing up a storm, writing in my journal, cooking or writing a million emails. All equally likely possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a very private person. If you have a question, just ask me.
You should message me if
You care about social justice.
You love to cook.
You could talk for hours about politics, spirituality or music.
You love to dance.
Especially if you love all these things.
The two of us