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My self-summary
Although I am independent, and always have been, I am also a romantic. I do believe in all of that romantic nonsense, as often as logic and the rest of the world declare exceptions to that soulmate nonsense. I do want to find someone who is quite an independent as myself, but comes into the relationship viewing it as equal.

I am a dreamer who can always find the humor in things. I love to laugh. Sometimes, my dry humor can get me in trouble with other people but that's because they don't understand that is how I demonstrate my appreciation for them. I try to see the good in events.

I value intelligence and imagination to the highest degree. Considering how I was reared and the fact that I was basically an only child, I had to learn how to entertain myself. I believe, if past lives really do exist, I must have been some storyteller. No matter the occasion, whether I'm at work or waiting in line at the store, I am always telling myself stories. As I am in my early-mid twenties, it has taken some time to realize that it is a part of who I am, as well as who I am not, what I want, and what I don't want.

When I was in eighth grade, the other kids pointed out how sometimes I only listened to their conversations, not really participating. The art teacher heard their observations and said, "She sees and hears more than you will ever know." That comment has stuck with me, even years later when I actually participate in conversations. Human behavior, personalities, and interactions interest me. The concept of morality, mainly good and evil, and love are all wrapped up in this. On any given day, I like having discussions with another person about this stuff. Granted, it isn't like we will ever have true answers, but I think it are the stories and experiences that count more than the absolute philosophies and concepts.

Besides all of these deep thoughts, I have also been known to jump up and down in glee at Harry Potter premieres, when two characters on a TV show (coughcoughBonescoughcough) get together, and when I move forward with my life. I have also been known to randomly start stories over text messages with a few select people, who usually participate.

If you haven't figure it out yet, I am a complete nerd. Yes, so it be. There is also a side of me that is quite sensible. I am dedicated to my health, whether it be the food I eat or the strenuous workouts I engage in. I do have a mediation/problem solving career, a Bachelor's Degree in said career, and manage to pay my bills on time. Once I get make more money and move up in my career, I would like to travel around the world.

As for what I am looking for, it has taken some hard lessons and considerations to realize what type of man I can actually consider having a serious relationship with. As I said before, conversation is important to me. That being said, I am quite fond of dry humor and sarcasm. I come from a family of people whose careers made them tough and witty. It was bound to happen that I would end up like them. Words are only words, and that is the moral of the story.

I am trying to find someone who won't run away at the first signs of trouble; someone who cares about his health and appearance, but knows when to play in the mud and get dirty; someone who isn't afraid to show love out in the open; someone who appreciates communication, honesty, and creativity. I want someone who can be a best friend as well as my significant other, an equal. I know people of both sexes hate that word, 'equal', being thrown out when it comes to a couple in a relationship. Yet, I don't think I will feel at home in a relationship if it isn't 'equal' in all of the various ways. My old math teacher once explained negative multiplication to a class of high school students by putting it under a relationship
example. (Positive times negative equals a failed and negative relationship; positive times positive equals a successful and positive relationship, etc). I want the next relationship I am in a positive one, with equal amounts of giving and taking compassion, love, support, laughing, etc. I don't want any one to be the 'breadwinner' or anything.

Finally, I think people should strive for happiness in every arena in their lives. Too many people are lying to themselves in circumstances where they think they are captives and are not happy at all. You have this life to live. Why not spend it happily?
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently on the rough draft of book two of a twenty-five book series. It is definitely a lifelong project and commitment but I have developed characters I can write for a very long time. I plan to self-publish. Meanwhile, for an actual career, I have been fortunate with how far I've come in a short time. I graduated college with a Bachelor's when I was twenty-one, and right now, I'm working at an entry level position in the field I wanted to go into if I had not yet made it large in the publishing world by the time graduation came around. I like helping people and keeping busy. Come this August, I am thinking of returning to college and picking up another degree, possibly psychology. I also am experimenting in the kitchen and seeing where my creativity takes me in those realms.
I’m really good at
being a know-it-all and ambitious. I have also provided my fair share of creativity and laughing to the world, and will continue to do so.
The first things people usually notice about me
Urgh. That I either have an unicorn's horn sticking out of my skull or that I have witch's warts on my nose? Or even that I have a bright orange hawk following me everywhere I go? Despite the sarcastic humor, I really have no idea. I fear that whenever people meet me, they believe I am this serious girl. While this may be the truth in their perceptions, I don't think I am that serious. It takes me some time to open up to people and show them that I am extremely laid back. Hell, I once consumed numerous pixie sticks at school in creative writing class and ended up doing laps around the temp (building).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Harry Potter has earn its place here as one of my favorite books; I love all of the well-plotted stories and the inspiration it has provided for my own writing. Besides, HP and I go all the way back to when I was thirteen and writing fanfiction. Other than HP, I've devoured the Hunger Game series, Kushiel's Dart series, The Mortal Instruments series, the Sword of Truth series, the Light Bearer, Talyn, and A Discovery of Witches. I'm also quite particular to dystopian society novels like 1984.

As for movies, I am a large fan of comedies, romantic comedies, sci-fi/fantasy action (ex: Underworld), and books-made-into-movies. I'm not a fan of the "gore and guts" horror films where its only purpose is to get as much blood and death on film.

I don't have cable. I don't need it. I prefer TV on DVD, and the shows I watch that are running are accessible through the internet or iTunes. I still watch Charmed and Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but as for still running shows, I love Bones, Saturday Night Live, New Girl, the Vampire Diaries, and Trueblood.

Music: I'm more of a fan of songs than bands. Though I am favoring Taylor Swift and Breaking Benjamin right now.

Food. . . ask any girl and she'll tell you she loves food and wishes she could eat all the damn time. Yup. For me, I wish I could gorge out on chocolate, peanut butter, pastas, chicken, pizza, ice cream, ice cream cake, hashbrowns, hamburgers, and mexican pizzas. I even love salad, peas, and fruits a little too much. The only things I refuse to eat are seafood and anything that can be classified as "EWWW, BUG!" when it is alive. Just don't tell me I'm eating goat intestines, though.
Six things I could never do without
Going beyond Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. . .

1. Imagination
2. A supply of pens and paper
3. Good music
4. A book
5. Infinite Possibilities
6. Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
right now, I'm plotting my twenty-five book series, so most of my thoughts are focused on that. I am also in a career where the "What-if" game is necessary to career survival, so I try to think up scenarios and answer them. Being ambitious, I also think about my future; those thoughts encompass both my personal and professional lives.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with a friend doing something like going out for dinner, seeing a movie, or walking around a mall. Sometimes, I need to stay at home because the world does not really need to see my temporary nasty attitude then. Sometimes, I prefer sitting at home and writing or browsing the internet. It all depends. Spontaneity keeps me entertained.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know I am a misfit. Right now, I am in the middle of declaring it to the world and not allowing it affect me when I'm at work. The rest, you'll just have to wait and find out.
You should message me if
you are interested, of course!
The two of us