65Rancho Santa Margarita, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a positive down to earth kind of guy. I really don't have the need to show the usual status symbols, eat in the hottest restaurants, or be seen at the most popular venues. With that said...I like good food, good wine and other spirits, theater, art and music. I enjoy a woman of elegance and style who has good taste. I read books, especially mysteries. I enjoy gardening. I love shopping at swap meets, country fairs, art shows, thrift shows, art galleries and off the beaten track antiquing.A big city boy, I also enjoy small towns and the country, though I like to live near water. I'm looking for an intelligent partner who is curious about a lot of different things. No one-dimensional person as I'm multi-layered. I want someone who can truly communicate, is respectful and wants to be respected in return. And of course a sense of humor that gets Monty Python and Mel Brooks.

I believe in living a life of authenticity and integrity. I'm loyal and faithful. Though I love a good time, and I love to hug everybody I'm definitely not a player. It's just not in my nature. When I commit you can trust and count on me to keep my word more importantly my commitment includes emotional openness.

I attend seminars to constantly grow and improve myself.

Raised Jewish. Love the culture, not a fan of organized religion. Am accepting of all beliefs or non-beliefs. i believe in the power of the unconscious mind and it's connection to the universe.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a coach, speaker and author about how people over 50 can get unstuck and move forward to new levels of relationship success.

I also write a blog and conduct webinars about dating and about the challenges for those over 50 at
I’m really good at
Listening, reading people, empathy and giving good advice when asked.

I really good at being a best friend, partner and companion.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, positive attitude and energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm fairly eclectic. I enjoy fiction including Grisham, Iiles and DeMille.

I'm a movie buff both old and new.

I like HBO (including Bill Maher), the history channel, NCIS and Castle with a little Big Bang Theory thrown in.
Six things I could never do without
Continuous learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can make myself a better person and how I can treat and understand others better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually with friends, a date, or just decompressing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Then it wouldn't private...would it?
You should message me if
You don't believe that Ayn Rand was the greatest mind of the 20th century, that Obama wasn't born in this country or an active listener of conservative talk radio and TV.
The two of us