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My self-summary
Before I begin, let me state... i'm INFJ, if that means anything to you, wonderful. If not, continue on below soldier!

This used to be called the Essay section; so, an essay shall follow!

The joy of writing is a privilege that is granted to very few people. Unfortunately, I am not one if those people. I would much rather just meet people out and about and get to know someone, alas, that's quite difficult for me due to the lack of self-esteem.

Either way, I'm not opposed to new friends, just too scared to get them myself :)

Who enjoys writing about themselves? I don't consider myself as one of those people, however, little questions to expound upon are quite useful and convenient, and if you feel like reading below, I do believe I've offered an interesting array of information for your reading pleasure :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am finally back in Kansas from a 23 year hiatus. I am a masters student at KU studying Opera and am thrilled to be in the area with such an amazing support line!
I’m really good at
Getting my point across and expressing myself, at the same time. I have an abundance of patience and love listening to people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I haven't the slightest idea. Well, people like to tell me I'm a good listener, but most of the time I am just learning about them... I like to talk too, but I will not talk if there is nothing that I can offer or contribute. I remember my Psych teacher quoting something along the lines of "wise men speak little but say much, idiots talk."

I've kind of held on to that; that's not to say, however, that I've never been caught with my foot in my mouth. Not a pleasant taste, but not a completely foreign idea.

That was gross, and I'm quite honest, almost to a fault.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I like quite a few, lemme make a short list... The Perks of Being a Wallflower; The Autobiogaphy of a Face; Go Ask Alice; Invisible Monsters; Ethan Frome; The Devil Wears Prada


I have few here that are my favorites, and it shows my movie-going variety... The Little Mermaid, Hocus Pocus, The Red Balloon, Amelie, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, The Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Pan's Labyrinth, The Incredibles, and a few others... it's late and I can't remember....

Shows ---

I don't watch TV... but I netflix Bizzare Foods, Family Guy, South Park, and No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain


Music is my life... I prefer classical music. And I will listen to anything that isn't Country, or hard core rap.
Speaking of Classical Music though, that list is too extensive *freebe* if you want a long and interesting conversation, talk to me about your favorite composers and why ;)


that's all, I like it. I like anything, except pork, though I will always prefer veggies over meats and seafood over everything.
Six things I could never do without
Quiet Time
Topher (my cat)
gummy candy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music. I'm always working on my music, it keeps me going. It's best when you internalize it, and it becomes a part of you :)

I also spend a lot of time evaluating my actions and thoughts, and analyzing other peoples' interactions with myself and other people. I like to "people watch" I feel like I understand people a lot better than most of the people I know... it doesn't mean that I do better with most people...
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm probably working, but I'd like to have a few people over for a relaxing calm night. Not much on the big party scene, but I don't mind going out on the town every now-and-then... but not often.

Perfect Night-
a few close friends over for a pot-luck-esque event, with strange new foods, card games, charades, and maybe a movie to top off the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't know. I'm pretty much an open book.
You should message me if
You want to :)

If you have a strong calling, interest, or participation in one of the fine arts. They all pull my heartstrings, and whether or not I am able to participate in yours, I loooove learning.
The two of us