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My self-summary
I'm a strong believer in ethical non-monogamy. I'm currently in a serious relationship with two people and I'm actively seeking a third one. Non-serious relationships and friends are great too. I'm weird. I have a nerdy side. I'm non-binary. I have a kinky side.

I consider myself to be hardworking, practical, and have a good sense of humor.

I love being out and about, especially with friends or while meeting new people. I like to travel, to go see or try new things. I love food, especially trying new food.

So you know how big burly dogs sometimes think they are still small and can just sit on you or cuddle with you. You think gee, I want to sleep and the dog just jumps on you and begins crushing/snuggling you. You bring someone new over to your place and they are super protective, but if you give them the opening to snuggle they are like fuck yes I don't care that I weigh 100 lbs. I'm like that sometimes so be warned.
What I’m doing with my life
I moved here last year, so I'm still finding my way around. Everything is still new and I feel like I could spend the next 20 years here and still not see all the great things that this area has to offer.

I'm a college grad. I'm working for corporate America at the moment, on the lookout for my dream job.

I left a lot of friends behind when I moved here, so I am still finding people with similar interests that can put up with my occasional silliness.

Thinking really, really hard about exercising on a regular basis!
I’m really good at
Cooking. At least I think so.

My friends say that I'm a good story teller (though maybe I just have good stories...).
The first things people usually notice about me
"Oh my gosh, you are so tall. Do you play basketball?"

So I'm slightly above average in the height department, but don't be intimidated.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading and I love watching movies (but be warned I am quite the film critic).

I am constantly reading self-help type books or guides. I also love historical fiction books and at the moment I am reading Devil in the White City. Just finished Vagabonding by Rolf Potts.

Movie wise, I have a lot of favorites.
V for Vendetta
Charlie Wilson's War
Shawshank Redemption
The Thomas Crown Affair
Searching for Sugarman
Howl's Moving Castle (along with almost every other Miyazaki film ever made)
Spy Game
The Usual Suspects
Trading Places
Red Line

Its rare that I watch television (haven't owned one for like 9 years now), but I do follow Suits, House of Cards, and Limitless. I am a huge fan of House. It was such a great show and I still go back and re-watch it from time to time.

I also enjoy:
Ghost in the Shell Series
Kore wa Zombie Desu Ka
Junjou Romantica
Kamisama no Memochou
Cowboy Bebop
Samurai Champloo
Genshiken Nidaime
Attack on Titan
Bunny Drop

And others.

Oh and I'm a Gamer (mostly PC).

I love music, I can listen to just about all types, it just depends on my mood. Well except for religious music (unless it doesn't have words, then maybe). If I had a favorite, then maybe rock or electronica type music.
Six things I could never do without
Air, water, food/drink, friends/family, interesting conversation, and a sense of humor.

Books, though I am not sure what on the list to replace... Maybe water...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next cool/new thing I want to go do/see/eat/ect.

Starting my own business that would allow for traveling and scheduling freedom.
On a typical Friday night I am
Calling friends and going on an adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I often wonder if everyone enjoys having their hair played with or petted.... because damn I love having mine played with more than I think is normal.
You should message me if
You want to chat or *gasp* meet for coffee (I don't actually like coffee, but I like tea and hot chocolate just fine).


Your a fucking fantastic human being and I am missing out on life having never met you.


Please don't "Like" me. Message me instead, -and I'll message you back!


Everyone can benefit from more friends. Don't lurk; send me a message.
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