54Grand Rapids, United States
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My self-summary
I am fifty one as of Jan 2014 , I have long med brown hair and blue eyes. I have three children, a twenty nine year old son, a twenty six year old daughter with Aspergers and a almost 16 year old daughter.
I am a dedicated Christian, I have absolute faith in God and thats never going to change, so don't bother trying.
I love upbeat music, I'll listen to almost anything so long as it isn't vulgar or violent, which cut out rap completely, I hate rap with a fiery passion.
I am very artistically talented, I love to draw, sew and various other crafts, including silk flower arrangements.
I love to go camping and venture out to the park for family picnics, movies are also something my family and I really enjoy, we make popcorn and gather up some snack food, then plop on the couch together and watch a movie, commonly something comedy or animated, we tend to watch family friendly movies.
As you can tell I am very family oriented, but that does not mean that I will not find special time to be alone with my significant other, I would just like for any gentlemen that attempt to pursue me to know that my children are a huge part of my life and any gentlemen pursuing me are going to have to like being around them as much as I do, because I will not for any reason push my children away.
I love the Left Behind movies, I watch them back to back sometimes with my oldest daughter.
Don't get me wrong, I am not a bible thumper, but my faith is very important to me, I couldn't be with someone that lacked faith in God, but that doesn't mean I am going to comdemn others for their personal choices.
I love to read, I often swap romance novels with my oldest daughter, we recommend good ones to each other all the time.
I am a big fan of Harry Potter, Twilight, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Star Trek, Dune, Scoobie Doo, Rush Hour, Shanghai noon and Shanghai knights, and thats just to say a few.
We've got a firepit in our backyard, we love to gather people close to us and sit around a warm fire, telling good jokes and swapping stories, also roasting marshmallows and hotdogs.
We LOVE to have cookouts, we basically like anything that gives us an excuse to be close to the people we love.
Whenever the rare occasions arrives, we love to order some pizza from Hungry Howies and possibly rent a movie we've been wanting to see, it's even better when we can invite over new people to form friendships with, friends are something very precious these days, we all needs friends to turn to when things get rough and you need someone to confide things in.
Also, those moments of of blissful laughter when you can just forget how much the world sucks are something to be treasured.
Hmm, oh yes, we've got two cats, Duckie a five year old Blue Russian, and Diana, a sweet little two year old calico, we love our cats very much and they aren't going anywhere.
We've also got a Collie puppy named Arwen, she belongs to my oldest daughter, Kayleigh. I hate liars and selfish people that can only think about themselves, thats one of the many things that is destroying this world.
Well, for the time being, thats it, more will most likely come later.

I am resourceful, sensitive, and romantic
What I’m doing with my life
The job I currently do is Daycare. I've also got a part time job at my youngest daughter's elementary school as a playground supervisor.
I’m really good at
Sewing, Arts and crafts and cooking.
I'm also pretty darn amazing with hair.
The first things people usually notice about me
My long hair and my eyes, my eyes are very blue, and my love for children.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read alot of romance novels, but I also like the left behind series, Lord of the rings and Harry Potter for both movies and books. My favorite food is Sushi, I can't get enough of it, my oldest daughter thinks it's nasty, lol, mmmmmmmmm and almost any kind of seafood .
Six things I could never do without
God. My children. My job. Air. Food. a good man, and the act of being with my true love, and a sense of humor. The world can be rough enough ,sometime we just need to get a little raw humor and laugh alot !
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything and anything.,But why is it that if a women isnt a slender size then they arent worth getting to know,So Im a curvey women, shapely,who Iam isnt just on the outside, so Im slightly on the plus size ,I have a good heart and need to be loved too. I want to be held close, looked at with loving eyes meant just for me.Im so over being alone all the time, I love my kids so much, but I need the loving tender touch of true love that only my true soulmate can give me as I can give him. The world is lonely enough , lets find one another, lets take a real chance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home, watching movies with my two awesome daughters or maybe having a bonfire with them in the backyard while we giggle and laugh over corny jokes, and hanging out with my new foster son and his friends playing video games and playing board games like apples to apples......its really funny and fun to play .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a hopeless romantic, I dream of true love, I deserve it and I won't settle anything less. I want to be in love, not just having sex.I wont do that. Iam a very sensative and passionate lady , my world has been turned upside down and almost destoyed. I need to know that there is a man out there wants and needs a real lady to love. I need you(him) now, to laugh with,cry with and make sweet love with forever.I need him to stand by me no matter what as I would do for him . I wont lay down and die anymore , my heart beats strong and needs a partner for life.
You should message me if
You are a christian and you are age 35 to 60 and you want a long term and genuine relationship based on love and understanding. I would also like for my man to have a decent job and have time to be with me. You must like kids, because I will not neglect my daughters or my sons for any man.
Also, it wouldn't hurt if you liked cats. We have two. They are not going anywhere. Don't forget dogs too, our puppy dog Arwen is the sweetest little angel ever and we love her so much, my oldest daugher would never survive if she had to give up that dog, so please don't bother if you do not like dogs or cats. AND IF ALL YOU WANT IS SEX ,get lost ! SO do you have what it takes to be my hero,my knight in shinning armor ? Could you , would you save from this lonely world?
The two of us