I am asexual. I'm not really looking for a sexual relationship, but I do want a relationship that lasts, and not the friendships that get replaced every year. I'd like to be with someone who's looking for the same thing, and so won't be relegated to the backdrop the minute someone else comes along.
Still interested? Then let's get into what's actually me.
Some people say it takes a while to get to know me, because I'm somewhat shy and don't always have a lot to say. But once I start feeling comfortable, you'll notice that I can be smart, quirky, and passionate about things I care about.
I love hole-in-the-wall eateries, little family restaurants no one else knows about. I give fabulous advice, because I'm a good mix of logic and social skills. I can be somewhat awkward sometimes, too; I'm totally a nerd at heart. I'm also something of a homebody, so chilling and watching Netflix is an ideal night in.
I'm idealistic, somewhat romantic, and I tend to see the forest instead of the trees. As a friend, if you're lucky enough to call me one, you'll know you have someone you can depend on. If you need me, I'm there. Conversely, if you're just using me, sayonara.
I'm looking for someone that I can depend on, that I can talk to as well as listen, somebody who can show me new and fun music and TV shows, and drag me out of the house to places I actually will admit to enjoying. If you're the kind of person who loves doing things, having fun, and letting loose once in a while, we might work fabulously together. I'm a little too levelheaded, serious, and shy sometimes.
Sometimes I'm an odd mix of mature and childish; in some respects I grew up too fast, and in others I haven't grown up at all. I'm not experienced in relationships, because it's taken me this long to realize it's okay to be who I am, and I'm not going to hell for even thinking that. I grew up in a very strict, religious household, and while I love my folks, we don't always agree on everything.
I've been working really hard at losing weight. If you have a 24 hour fitness membership, and you want a gym buddy, we should talk.
My snappy dressing skills.
My hair. It varies in color and style. A lot. Right now, it's purple.
Movies: I love suspense and cerebral films, and dramas are a must. Dark comedies are hilarious, and I have a secret love of old films. Hitchcock spoiled me at a young age. Also, I love Disney and Pixar films. Except Cars. That one is just okay.
As for TV shows, I love Joss Whedon, the Closer/Major Crimes, Sherlock, and Once Upon a Time.
Where did I set my keys? Crap, where are my glasses? Oh.
How to convince family and friends that homosexuality is not a sin and for the love of God please stop trying to change me. I know. I love you, too.
What is normal? What is a good differentiation and a bad one? Why is not ever bathing weird, and washing your hands several times a day just quirky? Do quirky people ever wonder if they're weird, or are they oblivious?
Also, I do fangirl somewhat. Whatever it is I'm absorbed in at the moment, you can be sure I'm thinking about the characters and what might happen.
Also, when the stars are out, I usually trip and fall because I can't walk and stare at the sky at the same time.