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My self-summary
I am a strong, vulnerable and passionate woman, ready to find her equal, and to co create our lives in a good way, together.

I've been thinking lately what its all about for me, and the answer is this: bringing the balance back between feminine and masculine energies, and embracing those parts (both vulnerability and power) we'd rather not see. For me, this is the same as my life's work, which I conceptualize as empowering the feminine, balancing the masculine and awakening to love and personal power

I thrive on love, touch, and strong, solid men who still know how to be sensitive and chivalrous, and extraordinarily healthy communication skills.

I'm in this for the long haul- meaning,I'm only interested in platonic friends or a serious relationship. Casual sex on the first second third date need NOT apply. While fun, been there done that, and I value myself (and you) enough to be straight up and pursue relationship.

I'm working as a spiritual/somatic mentor/alternative therapist in private practice, mostly with women around issues of self trust, empowerment, etc. I also do a few other things ,

Are you ready to color outside the lines, building from love?

Write to me. I dare you. And if it sparks in my heart, I'll reply. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm workin' a work trade for housing helping an older friend. I teach yoga part time at studios and corporate, and am conceptualizing my dream business. This last piece is about welcoming the balance of feminine and masculine energies in a healthier way, expressed through radical healing groups, yoga, fashion, and art.
I’m really good at
Having close female friends, being a dog whisperer (and sometimes a cat whisperer), holding space for emotions, being intuitive, and creative pursuits from cooking to dressing to art.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I operate from a different paradigm than most. Quirky, awesome-ly eccentric. I don't play by the rules.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food is super huge for me right now -balancing out some dental issues-- eating a lot of fresh veggies, grass fed /pastured meat, clean fats, etc. I love good coffee, too, esp Philz. I am mostly substance free beyond that.

MUSIC: Kirtan- like Krishna Das, Wah! etc. Rockin out- Lady Gaga, Peaches, Wild Flag, Black Eyed Peas, etc. Girly thangs: Paula Cole, Sinead O' Connor, Kristin Hersh, Tori Amos, Charlotte Martin, etc. FESTY BEATS: Beats Antique, Om at Last....

Books: I have a shelves of psychology books, fantasy, yoga books, and bodywork tomes. Mists of Avalon . Fierce Medicine. Paths to God. Sacred Contracts.

TV SHOWS: Once Upon a Time, Once Upon a Time in Wonderland. Eli Stone , anything with parallel universes time travel etc

Movies: Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit
Six things I could never do without
ok-- radical fuckin' honesty

My dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Dear God/dess/Source- Please show me the way and guide me towards my highest potential in all forms, here and now, and in this lifetime. Aho.
On a typical Friday night I am
communing with beloved friends, babysitting an adorable 2 year old, meditating, at amma's, dancing at a concert who knows.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I can be self disclosing and transparent with friends/lovers/partners. That I am a fireball, a still river that runs deep, can hold Shadow as well as light and need to be met in all of this.
You should message me if
In down to earth terms, an amazing man who is seeking continuing self knowledge, is constantly on the journey, and has the real world stuff more or less together. My best relationships have been with men with an embodied spiritual practice.

You are strong, solid, and know yourself, and embody incredibly healthy communication skills (more on this above), and are looking for a lady for the long haul, while also understanding that it's a "feeling it out" process that must be co-created step by step.

Bonus points if you are involved with any of the following: creativity, yoga, buddhism, nondualism, martial arts, paganism/priest(essing).
The two of us