51 Alameda, United States
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My self-summary
Described by a female friend as

"amazing, responsible, knows how to treat a woman like a real woman, opening doors for her, from a good, loving family with values and very open to intimacy and connection that serves both people. Creative, super-communicative, collaborative and very much a real man." (Thx, Cindy)

Let's connect if you're ready for:

-Easy connection with a grounded man who likes taking initiative
-Enjoyable banter -- with long skeins of actual depth
-Being open to the possibly-emotionally dangerous
-Hanging out in a healthy balance of the sacred & profane
What I’m doing with my life
Raising an exquisite young woman and building a dream business slowly and deliberately, maybe 30 hours a week -- keeping a schedule filled with connecting with friends, daily Daddy-daughter time, traveling, fun and adventure.
I’m really good at
communicating often & generously
Putting you at ease
being grateful
The first things people usually notice about me
Warmth. And the silver mane
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: East of Eden, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Catch-22, The Wisdom of Insecurity
flix: 2001, The Station Agent, Wings of Desire, Raising Arizona
music: African & jazz -- moved on from Mechelle Ndegeocello to Habib Koite and Roy Hargrove
food: Thai (OK, Italian -- wait, no, MEXICAN! Still searching for the Perfect Burrito)
The six things I could never do without
exercise (hoops & hiking)
my 6-yr-old daughter's smiling face
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ways to live in the tropics part of each year while fulfilling a mission to create a very cool business -- and remain relatively detached so my real priorities always come first
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner with friends then seeing a film or game
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Guilty pleasure: Hall & Oates (Say It Isn't So!)
You should message me if
Show off your female intuition & win Bonus Points with "Two truths & a fib"! (Which one of these is NOT true):

1) Bestowed the honorary title of "Liboni" to a Massai tribe after being "married" in a mock ceremony to 3 Tanzanian women

2) had 3 tryouts with the Cincinnati Reds

3) was shot at 5x by a crackhead while jump-starting my car at 3am in Oakland circa 1992 (He had terrible aim)

BTW, I'm not Arab but I DO ride horses.