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My self-summary
ASEXUAL*. In poly relationships with violinasaur0Ts and catharsiscomes.

Hufflepuff/Slytherin hybrid. Neutral Good with a dash of True Neutral. Fannibal. Mythbuster. Ms. Frizzle Wanna-Be. Game Grumps Geek. Introverted People Person. Grey-Asexual*. Panromantic. Kinky. Resident Know-it-All. Shakespeare lover. Insomniac. Secret Southerner. Musician. Internet Addict.

Friends first, everything else comes second.

My virtue is Charity, and my vice is Sloth.
I'm silly and serious and a bit of a space cadet.
I'm cuddly and affectionate.
I love to learn things, any things. And then tell you all about them.
I love to listen to people talk about subjects they love, and then have long debates and discussions about it.
I like jigsaw puzzles, watching youtubers, and going on adventures to parks, theatres, and concert halls.
I like to build myself nests out of blankets and pillows and sit in them all day on the computer.
I like serious, passionate discussions about social justice and world issues.
I secretly love horrible puns and dad jokes.
I'm a nerd and a geek and occasionally a dork.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending time with my partners, few friends, and their pets.
Cuddling and instagramming photos of my of cats.
Getting a surprisingly fun paralegal degree a little bit at a time.
Doing jigsaw puzzles while drinking tea.
Going to museums and zoos when I can get someone to go with me.
Trying to catch up on a lifetime of culturally significant film (I didn't have a TV as kid, and I didn't bother watching it much in High school).
Reading, reading, reading. Reading.
Spending too much time online and not enough time asleep.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating, gushing about doggies, being outside, cleaning, listening to people, being a know-it-all, talking, being compassionate, compromising, moderating disagreements, calling people out, taking care of people, puzzles, physical problem solving, teaching people about social justice issues, Googlefu, Abusing parentheses (because making snarky and/or informative asides is my favourite), consistently using oxford commas, and getting super excited about things.
The first things people usually notice about me
People tend to comment on my abnormally tiny hands a lot. In fact, people seem to get the impression that I'm incredibly tiny in general. I don't know where they come up with that, but I'll smack your kneecaps if you try to pick me up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: books by H.P. Lovecraft, Maria V. Snyder, Philip Pullman, Tamora Pierce, J.R.R. Tolkien, Shakespeare ; Harry Potter, The Devil's Right Hand, Dead Man Rising, Universe in a Nutshell, War of the Worlds, Night, Kaffir Boy, Hitch-Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Giver, Everworld, Ender's Game, Dune.

Movies/Shows: The Hobbit (1977) THE ANIMATED ONE, The Last Unicorn, Let Me In, Contact, Underworld, Run Lola Run, Fifth Element, Serenity/Firefly, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Princess Bride, Much Ado About Nothing, Shakespeare in Love, Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone, Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, Avatar, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle, Sherlock BBC, Hannibal (NBC), Elementary, Mythbusters, NCIS, Game Grumps, Good Eats, Jamie Oliver (any of his shows), Music Core, Inkigayo, God's Quiz, Answer Me 1997, Joy of Painting (with Bob Ross), Doctor Who, Soccer/Football of any kind.


Panic! At the Disco, System of a Down, Garmarna, 30 Seconds to Mars, Orla Gartland, Chet Baker, Maroon 5,Basshunter, Skyhill, Ninja Sex Party, t.A.T.u, Ffynnon, Marina and the Diamonds, BIGBANG, B.A.P, F(x), 2Yoon, SISTAR19, Super Junior, SHINee, M-flo, Faun, Celtic Women, O-zone, Iron Maiden, Rush,Vibrasphere, Shelia Chandra, Native American Flute, Renaissance music, most Classical, General top 40s, most things not in English.

Food: Simple, homey foods done well; Most any kind of noodles; Strawberries, but really most fruits in general; Coffee Krisps; Twizzlers; Chocolate covered potato chips; Marzipan; Hob Nobs; Shortbread cookies; Gelato; Ricecrispy treats; Pad Thai; Potstickers; Strawberry bubble tea; Garlic Bread; Corn on the Cob; (Avocado) BLTs; Indian; Ethiopian; Spicy anything; Baci (it's an Italian chocolate); My mum's cranberry sauce; Stuffing and gravy; sweet tea.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Languages. Ethics. Academics. Popular culture, social dynamics and how those affect our lives. Sociolinguistics. Fanfiction and Fandom. Tumblr. Kink and its infinite possibilities. Polyamory. Healthy relationships and how to achieve them with others. Self care. What I want out of my education and my life in general. Music and musicianship. All the awesome books I need to read. How fucking awesome science is. How I would execute a long-term wilderness-survival situation. Dogs and puppies. Whether or not I can get away with not doing laundry for one more day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my partners and friends. Curled up watching youtube videos or just talking about the universe with someone. Discussing a SJ and/or complex moral issues with a friend. Watching one of my favourite shows on my computer (and screaming about the subtleties of characterization and cinematography on tumblr). Indulging in fanfiction (Anyone want to talk Johnlock, Snarry, Hannigram, or Doctor/Rose Tyler with me? Let us squee together about our OTPs!). Snuggling with the cats.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
ADHD, Depression, and Anxiety are the arch-enemies that invade my brain and require me to fight brain wars occasionally. I also have a few minor physical disabilities.

*Look, grey-asexual/panromantic is currently the best label I've found for my sexual and romantic orientation, but in all honestly it's complicated and I don't even really know. I like who I like and I sometimes want to have sex with people but most of the time I don't.

I'm a bit of a Little, and would ideally like to find a partner interested in being a CG (Care Giver).

I'm archionblu everywhere on the internet. Feel free to stalk me at your own risk.
You should message me if
You want to be friends, and then see where it goes from there.

You're a poly/open relationship person looking for other such folks to connect with.

You want to get together to drink wine/tea/coffee and get excited about substantive topics, as well as silly ones.

We have 80% or greater match.

You want to cuddle on the couch while showing me movies you can't believe I've lived this long without seeing.

You'd like to go with me to the zoo, a museum, a music concert (of most any genre, but I have a special fondness for classical, ethnic, and jazz), or theatre (especially of the shakespearean variety, and/or involving puppetry).

You know of a deserted or adult-sized playground and want to play "red hot lava monsters" or Pirates with me.

You have something intelligent, interesting, and participatory to ask or discuss with me. Let me know you've actually looked at my profile.

I've visited your profile like six times and haven't messaged you yet. It means I think you're super rad and I am flailing shyly and having difficulty initiating. Help.

You want to drive out into the middle of nowhere and tell me stories about the constellations. You can make them up if you don't know any, I don't mind.

You're at home with the geeky, the nerdy, and the unusual.
The two of us