38 Midlothian, United States
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My self-summary
OMG I need to rewrite this whole thing- so here's the short version-

I find myself strangely confused and working to emerge from a long dark night of the soul. Too much has changed that has left me in a Flux - pardon our progress.

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Are you Erisoteric? Part Eris, Goddess of Laughter, Confusion, and Discord, and part esoteric - know about things other people haven't been exposed to? Would you rather camp out with music and art over hitting bars? Looked for the edge of an envelope and pushed hard just because? If you watch TV, think sugar daddies are where it's at, then click on back, nothing to see here.
What I’m doing with my life
Just rolled off my last project so it's fun time to let the universe toss something new to me. I am a single father with an 8 yr old girl that is cooler than I am. Ok, not QUITE as cool, but seriously, she's badass. I have my moments as well- I'm going on 12 years now in IT doing that thing and balancing career, crazy and thuglife. I've been there\done that with the thuglife and crazy parts tho and am ready to just be normal and ...ok, life+normal honestly don't fit together for me. Let's just say I'm all growed up now and ready to take on the world, looking for a partner in crime to make it that much better. That's where you come in BTW.
I love hacktivism, Burners (if you're family, welcome home, I've been waiting for you), research - I paint, scuba dive, travel (Belize, Cozumel, Amsterdam, Vancouver, etc), read obscure occult and spiritual books, and (redacted by NSA)
I’m really good at
Lots of stuff - and excel most with someone that challenges me - I like deep soul baring talks. And puns. And fun. And not giving a rat's ass what other people think. I do things that I haven't done before as a habit and love random.

I'd love to hear your important cheats and shortcuts in life and thoughts on the meaning of it all. (42). Or life story, dreams, and passions.
The first things people usually notice about me
My motorcycle or sunburns? Eyes? Smile? I don't know what people notice - probably my smile and laugh. I think I'll ask some random strangers and report the ugliest commentary so you'll be properly informed. (I still haven't asked - I believe if you dismiss me out of first impressions, it's not my loss, I have far too many friends that I know I make a difference to for a mass America's opinion to matter in the least to me)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I killed my television about 8+ years ago and use it for pirated everythings. I encourage you to also kill your television. I DO have the interwebs hooked up to my tv, and an ebook reader I carry around like Linus' blanket. I read every chance I get. I cook gourmet food based on if the name is fun to say, like babaganoush. Go ahead, say it. Its fun.

I cook all my meals generally and love to cook. Random and new are common deciding factors on whats on the menu tonight, Mother Superior.
I found music again - it has already been a cornerstone of who I am while growing up but got put away in a dusty part of a closet while I dealt with everything else. Recently, it's been taken down and evolved into something called "glitch mob" - at least that's the Pandora generated channel that runs for days while I bop my head and work.
The six things I could never do without
I need the interwebs and all its tubes for my job and lifestyle. I also need to constantly make myself better, because I'll never be content unless I'm progressing and learning. Every time I meet a goal, I set a new one. I won't try to change people, I just accept them as they are. I can do without following rules, so this section won't have 6 things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. But the focus and energy is about today to make tomorrow become what the dreams in the past hoped it would be. "We all have our time machines. Some take us back, they're called memories. Some take us forward, they're called dreams.
On a typical Friday night I am
There isn't really a typical Friday for me. I have spent the last 8 months putting my jagged Puzzle Piece of life that is "me" into a smoothed out one ready to fit into a beautiful picture. I'm tragically shy (*about asking out a stranger only) and chronically honest so playing pretend about who we are in the traditional dating dance has never been my interest. I don't ask anyone out or even try to make first contact, so, SURPRISE, I'm single. Oh wait, that's no surprise- it's a disconnect from how things work. So this is my message in a bottle- it reads "Lost at sea, please come find me, I've been busy building me and am ready to collaborate on a building US project. Find me under the stars"

If you're a Texas Burner and hit up the Regionals or have been to Burning Man - you're family, so hit me up and see you back home :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing :) Ask me anything you'd like tho
You should message me if
speak up por favor! I don't usually message people first. Let's be friends and go do something silly for laughs. I'm in this to make friends, experience new things, and know that when the right person meshes with me, together we can compliment each other right into manifestation of dreams we never even had.