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My self-summary
- Arte De Scientia - The art of science -

About me, let us see. I think rather than psychologically flashing everyone and leaving nothing to the imagination or putting out some vacuous tripe that leaves everything to the imagination I will shoot for somewhere in the middle (but my lists, I can't just abbreviate my beautiful lists).

I am a scientist, an artist, and (for lack of better words) a tinker. I like to paint and draw, to discover and create. I love the outdoors and adventures in nature or curious drives to nowhere. In particular I have a fondness for the water; streams, rivers, lakes, swamps, oceans all call to me. I will skip fetid cesspools though, thank you.

I won’t say that I enjoy most music, but I do enjoy music in all sorts of genera. I could be just as easily found listening to Grieg’s Peer Gynt as I could the Offspring, The Misfits, Bowie, Cradle of Filth, etc. etc. I also very much enjoy movies, though I will admit I can be a bit of a critic.

My sense of humor is all over the place and although it tends to run more to the sardonic side of things I will find myself laughing out loud from silly inane slapstick to cerebral and yes nerdy/geeky humor. Because Dec 25=Oct 31.

I am looking for, well, what everyone is looking for. A companion, a friend, a mate, and an other. Someone with whom to enjoy the sunrises and sunsets which pass all too quickly. A moment or two in the grand scheme of things, or maybe just that one moment I never want to end.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I manage research labs at a university here though my ultimate goal is to have my own lab/professorship working in academia, preferably somewhere in the pacific northwest. I am a very focused person weather working or 'playing'. I enjoy drawing, painting, watching movies, hanging out with friends, and enjoying nature in my free time. Existentially, I am looking to leave my proverbial mark on the world and maybe to find that the world I would like to believe we live in and the world I have come to observe hold more in common than I happen to be able to see at this point in my life, or maybe help to make it so.
I’m really good at
Finding complicated solutions to simple problems.
Fixing things that other people broke.
Fixing things that I broke.
Seeing the less appropriate side of the conversation.
Being OK with normal being an invalid concept.
Drawing and painting.
Talking with my hands.
Not writing as quickly as I am speaking on the white board.
Illustrating every concept I am trying to get across on a white board.
Only erasing the portion of the white board I need.
Making people feel better when they are down.
Singing in the shower.
Singing while I cook.
Making lists without the use of bullets (though some people would maintain that only the full sentences in my list merit punctuation and as they are all slightly incomplete I should just leave the punctuation off, personally I like punctuation).
Using punctuation (and brackets).
The first things people usually notice about me
I can't say that I have ever asked. Probably my existence. They may, however, assume that I am a figment of their imagination (which I assure you I probably am not). Beyond that I would guess they would notice that I have long hair, I wear glasses (most of the time),or that I look like I am busy (which I probably am).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Long lists, I will try to make them as abbreviated and accurate as possible.

I tend to stick more to the classics, not because there is anything wrong with modern works per say, there are just so many great books out there. Some of my favorite authors: Jules Verne, Edgar Alan Poe, Shakespeare, H.P. Lovecraft, Dante, Isaac Asimov, H.G. Wells. I also love the Grimm fairy tales, but they are more of a collection than so much authored. I enjoy Clive Barker, and I really have tried to like Stephen King but simply could not.

I love horror movies, I also really enjoy psychological suspense, science fiction, thriller, action, comedy, and even romantic movies. For me it is more about the quality of the story and movie than the genera. Special effects do not a good film make.


I assume they mean television shows? I honestly don't really watch much TV. When I did I suppose there were shows I enjoyed but I was never really one to watch anything on a regular schedule.


Well, I always have music of some sort playing in my head. More often than not that music is far removed from what may be playing on the radio, but I have a a massive number of bands I enjoy off the top of my head some of my favorites: Tori Amos (drool), Emily Autumn (also Drool), Depeche Mode, Cradle of Filth, Anders Manga, Annie Lennox, Apocalyptica, Assemblage 23, Blumchen, Billy Talent, Clan of Xymox, Cocteau Twins, Collide, Tool, Covenant, A covenant of Thorns, Unfinished Thought, Cruxshadows, Cyndi Lauper (also drool but back in the day), David Bowie, Diary of dreams, Eurythmics, Flowing Tears, Funker Vogt, Wumpscut, Garbage, Ladytron, Loreena Mckennitt, Marilyn Manson, Misfits, Peter murphy, Nick Cave, Placebo, Qntal, Queen, Kiss, Duran Duran, Rasputina, Regina Spektor, Shakespears Sister, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Suzanne Vega, The beatles, The Who, The Clash, The Stray Cats, Within Temptation, Nine Inch Nails, Metallica. And a ton more.

Yes please! I love food, all sorts so long as it is good food. I generally say my favorite is Italian, but I love good Mexican, French, Indian, and Greek food. I am willing to try just about any food, and will do it again if it is good. Also, steak, bacon, a good cheeseburger, chocolate, or many other tasty things will make me smile. Banana Bread. Carrot Cake.

That being said, I have been doing a low carbohydrate diet for more than 2 years now. I started to help me lose weight, which I did, and I have stayed on it because I feel great. This does mean I mostly eat just meat. Mostly. Which is a bit in contradiction with the fact that I am a bit of a foodie. My current diet does not change that I love a massive variety of foods, I just don't eat them often.
Six things I could never do without
1) Music, it drives me, inspires me, eases my lows, and enhances my highs. A world without music would be a sorry one.
2) Art, in whatever form it is an outlet and a factory. It drives the ideas that boil up inside my brain, even those that may not seem artistic at first glance. A world without art would be a dull one.
3) Friends, they have carried me through much adversity and drove me to accomplish more than I could have without them. A world without friends would be a lonely one.
4) Sleep, gods how I love my precious sleep and the dreams that come with it. "To die, to sleep— To sleep—perchance to dream. Ay, there's the rub! For in that sleep of death what dreams may come, " William Shakespeare - Hamlet
5) Goals. All of this driving and dreaming must lead us somewhere, a path with a destination (even sometimes when the destination is a new path). Where there no destination is there hope, is there meaning? My goals may not define me, but they guide me. A world without goals would be melancholic to say the least.
6) Water, and I don't mean in the I'll die if I can't drink water sort of way. I mean, bodies of water. Rivers, waterfalls, lakes, and oceans. When my dreaming and driving and reaching for stars binds me a simple wave sets me free. Reminding me how small I am, reminding me that peace exists even when we feel as though there is none. It carves the surface of the world and knows nothing. There is some comfort I find in the water. A world without water would be rather uncomfortable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my next move is going to be, and where it will take me. I also think about the mistakes I have made and what I think I have learned from them. I think about the promises I have made to myself and kept, and those I have failed to keep. I think about the future and the wonderful or horrible things it may hold. I think about the past and how I came to be where I am. I think about life, love, happily ever afters, and how that is not quite how the story originally ended.

I spend a ton of time thinking about my job, but a big part of my job is thinking about my job so that is kind of a given.
On a typical Friday night I am
Staving off the destruction of the universe, taking care of household chores that I neglected during the week, keeping the wall wet, hanging out with friends, at a coffee shop drawing, or random ninja-esq activities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I may have stretched the truth a wee bit when I said (in the 'You should message me if' section) that 'I rarely bite, without permission'.
You should message me if
You should message me if you found my shipment of 2,4,5-trioxin. I swear, if it hasn't been opened, there is no need for a tactical strike. You should message me if you read through my profile and i seem like someone you would like to get to know. Also, I suppose, if my profile was too long and you didn't read it you should message me if you liked my pictures. I rarely bite, without permission.
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