Although I have always connected with women more often on a romantic level, I am open to all genders/orientations/trans/etc. My attraction to someone is based on their hearts (and, admittedly, how much of a top they are) as opposed to their physical body.
Fair warning: One of my biggest turnoff's is txtype.
Me in a nutshell:
Homoflexible, genderfuild yet hard femme, kink-loving, sex positive, hard-working, non-smoking, active, open, semi-introverted, walking contradiction... and I have a love/hate relationship with labels. Oh, and manners are a turn-on.
Yep. I think that about sums me up, but here are the details...
I love to learn and discover. Even though I long to be somewhat of a housewife, I could never do that 24/7. I would have to volunteer, have a job/career, or something in the real world. I need to contribute to and be a part of the world.
I am openly and strongly against any kind of bigotry, especially transphobia and biphobia.
What does that mean? I'm not anti-monogamy but I'm comfortable with open relationships/poly. I am a quality over quantity person. If I end up in a monogamous relationship with a wonderful gal, great! If we decide to open it up with others, that's great too! I care about having that one special person first and foremost. As cheesy as it sounds, I believe that love is love and the form it comes in isn't always what we expect it to be.
I'm a family person
I want my own family, in good time. I love kids and want to become a mother to at least 2 with a loving companion beside me.
I'm an s-type
There we go. It's out there. I go to fun "parties" every weekend with great friends. I'm usually tied up or getting spanked. I prefer to be an s-type more than anything. Too much? I'm not your girl then. Don't know what SSC or RACK means? Still not your girl.
I am girly
Although I have myself down as 'genderfluid' I'm almost always very feminine. My switch comes from the difference between a femmey-gay boy vs. typical girly-girl.
I love adventure
This could mean a road trip or learning about another person's lifestyle or reading a new genre of books or anything. Life is meant to be explored.
I am open
I am all about open-communication, giving and receiving. I think talking about our emotions, processing them with a partner in a healthy, loving and kind manner is the best! I used to date people who didn't want labels or expectations, although I am all about letting a relationship develop naturally, I think having clear expectations for all partners is essential for healthy relationships. Not everyone will agree and that's okay, we are all different. I am just not interested in playing the 'my way is better' game. People are unique in how things are approached, I am just looking for someone(s) uniqueness that is compatible with mine.
In short, if you are unable to be open emotionally in a healthy, loving manner (aka, non-blaming and non-dumping) then we won't work out as a romantic relationship.
I'm a quality over quantity gal.
I love my friends and prefer quality over quantity by all means. This is same with a relationship. I don't settle nor compromise myself in that area, but that doesn't mean I'm unreasonable or shut off either.
I'm also really bad at doing the awkward first time meeting questions, I'd rather get down to the real deal.
Art of Racing in the Rain
Buddhism for Beginners
The Ethical Slut
Young Frunkensteen (LOVE Madeline Kahn!)
The Fifth Element
Anything with Rachel McAdams
Anything with Drew Barrymore
in-her-prime Kathleen Turner (Romancing the Stone, V.I. Warshawski, Undercover Blues)
I have found that my tolerance for spicy has gone up. So I am loving indian food and fajita's these days. I am NOT a fast-food person unless if it is a dire emergency, even then, I will go Subway style; never BK or Mc's style.
Good pair of running shoes
Yummy bottle of red wine
With friends dancing the night away
Seeing a movie
Having me time.
I miss when myspace was in for only one reason: Playing music on your profile. Made my life feel like a movie!
I *love* making mix cds!
I guess that's more than one thing, isn't it?
You are open.
You are poly-minded or at least open-minded.
You radiate confidence while leaving arrogance at the door.
You don't pick out what's wrong with your body. Love yourself!
You know what FL means... and it's *not* Florida.