CaptMReynolds is my partner. Check out his cute face.
I am an artist, I write and draw lots. I act a little and sing and paint poorly. Mostly I just tell stories and express character and emotional analysis of humanity, the world and what enjoyment, beauty and disappointments I find in it.
I am a gender queer, gender fluid, agender. I use gender neutral pronouns, (they/them or ze/zim/zers) or he/him. I am pansexual, which to me means I can be attracted to any gender expression. I am polyamorous and currently have three partners. I am a part of the Seattle TNG Kink community. I am a sadomasochist Switch, I am collared by one of my partners and scene with all of them. I am fluid bonded with two of my partners and get tested every three months.
I am a closet extrovert. I spend energy being alone and gain it from others. I just also love being alone to create, or contemplate or spend a stretch of time appreciating nature. As such I have to strike the right balance of in depth involvement with people and long periods of time alone. I suck at small talk because I tend to be all in or all out. I'm either connecting in a meaningful way or I'm off in my head. I am however, also trying to learn to be a better conversationalist for those humans who don't communicate the way I do.
I grew up in a very depressed house, and it has in many ways defined me, I struggle with life and find being a human more difficult than is likely healthy. I am healing well, and working on this, but anyone who wishes to know me will eventually deal with that truth.
As for what I'm looking for, people who want any amount of relationship with me have to be open to poly lifestyle, whether we date or not, and if we do, even if they do not take other relationships. If you have questions about what that means, feel free to ask. I've had fun educating people about poly life thus far. Beware though, though it's pretty simple it takes a lot of explaining. Or maybe I talk a lot. (I talk a lot).
The first personality thing people tend to notice is that am well spoken and mature.
Animes or Mangas: Death Note (my first love, especially the manga) Gurren Laggan, Du Ra Rara, Saiyuki, Hellsing Ultimate, Tokyo Ghoul
Films: V for Vandetta, Inglorious Bastards, Burn After Reading, Meet Joe Black, Harold and Maude, Edward Scissorhands, Pixar owns my soul and so does Hayao Miyazaki
Vloggers: Ze Frank, Sexplanations, The Vlog Brothers, Starkidz
Comedians: Tim Minchin, Eddie Izzard, Margaret Cho, Ricky Gervais
Books: The Ethical Slut, Everything You Know About Sex Is Wrong, The Fault In Our Stars, the Harry Potters, Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy, The Sandman comics series by Neil Gaiman, The Magicians Triology by Lev Grossman, Jhereg and the whole greater series by Steven Brust, and what little Terry Pratchet I have read
Video game: Dragon Age: Origins, DA Inquisition, Tomb Raider reboot, Deathspank
at least one pencil, if not millions
my metaphorical Coven of superwomen/besties/sexfriends
warm lazy days listening to the rain
But I'm really afraid of boring them.
Are interested in discussing sex, gender and queerness in a Positive way
Are interested in poly networking
Are sex and body positive. I don't care what your preferences are, but if you think that what you find physically attractive = what a worthy person is you can go fuck off
Are interested in talking about BDSM
Are interested in a chat with a geeky little artist
If you are prepared to give and receive long winded honesty