That being said, if you like talking about psychology, debating religion, or just goofing off and being silly, keep reading. :)
Let's see. How to summarize myself... I am a total geek and very proud of it! I spend a lot of time working on improving myself intellectually and emotionally. One of my highest priorities is improving the gentleness and clarity of my communication. I sing pretty much constantly, and I love to sit around and play music with people, both casually and with either of the two bands I'm in. I'm also a huge fan of filking, instafilking about pretty much anything, and hosting filk circles.
I am strange in that I have a baseline level of caring about ...everyone, that seems to sit higher than most. I love everybody. Everyone deserves compassion and care and respect and safety and love. And then when I meet people and get to know them personally, I love them even harder. And then sometimes I fall in romantic love with them. But I love everyone unless they have proved themselves really not deserving of it. And even then I still feel compassion for them. It can be kind of exhausting, but as Watsky says, "I prefer it to the alternative."
So I treat people like I love them. Because I do.
I spend most of my time smiling, and the plethora of smileys used in this summary and throughout my profile actually pretty accurately represents how much I smiled while writing these. :)
I'm polyamorous. :P I consider myself sapiosexual, and pansexual, so keep that in mind when deciding whether to message me or not. :) I'm kinky and queer and probably other fun things that I can't think of off the top of my head. :) I tend toward the submissive and masochistic side of things, but can be somewhat switchy depending on the partner. I really prefer to sub though.
I love to share knowledge, but if people get into an argument about something where both sides are correct, or worse, both sides are -wrong-, I am liable to jump in with actual facts that diffuse the situation yet make a solid point in regards to whatever they were talking about.
I am dedicated, loving, and enthusiastic.
(Alternate three words, for those who get the reference: Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist)
Update: according to my boyfriend, the first things people notice about me are the "love and warmth" that I "radiate." xD And that I make those around me happy.
Books: The Miles Vorkosigan Saga by Lois McMaster Bujold, Hello, Cruel World by Kate Bornstein, Anything written by Tamora Pierce, anything written by Laura Ingalls Wilder, anything written by L. M. Montgomary, anything by Terry Pratchett, Anne McCaffrey's books, Neil Gaiman's Sandman, Heinlein, Libba Bray, Asimov, The Fire Within (and it's sequels) by Chris D'Lacey, and many many others.
Movies: The AVENGERS(!!!!!!), Tangled, Kiki's Delivery Service, Howl's Moving Castle, My Neighbor Totoro, Escaflowne, the BBC Pride and Prejudice with Colin Firth, Scott Pilgrim VS. The World, Better Than Chocolate, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Bride and Prejudice, Bend It Like Beckham, WALL-E, The Lion King 1 and 2, Mulan, Hot Fuzz, The World's End, Shaun of the Dead, Paul, The Little Mermaid, and many more I can't think of right now. :) And yeah, I do have a thing for kids movies. ^.^
Webcomics: El Goonish Shive, XKCD, Questionable Content, DMFA, Go Get A Roomie, Gunnerkrigg Court, Sorcery 101, Pictures Of You, Ozzie and Millie, Sandra and Woo...
Shows: Buffy, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along-Blog, Firefly, Bones, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Phineas and Ferb, Once Upon A Time, Malcolm in the Middle, Tokyo Mew Mew, Danisnotonfire, Psych, New Girl, Bob's Burgers, Blacklist, How I Met Your Mother, Supernatural, Adventure Time, Steven Universe...
Music: This is the worst one. I have a very eclectic taste in music, and I always find it really hard to list it off. This would be one of those things people should ask me about if they are curious. Since I have to make a partial list, here are some of my top favorites: Rise Against, Suzanne Vega, Radiohead, ABBA, Bob Kanefsky, Heather Alexander, Julia Ecklar, Emilie Autumn, Evanescence, Vixy and Tony, Tim Minchin, Amanda Fucking Palmer, Dresden Dolls, Leonard Cohen, Ani DiFranco, Tori Amos, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Frank Hayes, Rammstein, Eisbrecher, Pink Floyd, Mickey Phoenix, Doubleclicks, The Offspring, Seether, Alexander James Adams (who I have now had the pleasure of performing with), Pentatonix, Dessa, Watsky, Barenaked Ladies, Matchbox 20, Weezer, Marcy Playground, Postmodern Jukebox..
Musicals (because this thing doesn't have enough categories): Into The Woods, Phantom Of The Opera, Seussical, Les Miserables, Chasing Nicolette, RENT, Rogers and Hammersteins Cinderella....
Food: Tomatoes, raspberries, bagels with cream cheese and locs, salmon sashimi...
Video Games: WoW, Soul Caliber 5, Skull Girls, Mario Kart, Zelda games (specifically Ocarina of Time), Rock Band, Guitar Hero, DDR...
...oh. And sex. Lots of thinking about sex. xD
And most recently, how incredibly calming and beautiful the sound of rain outside my window can be on a still night in the city.
And the fact that I am currently a lot like Steven, but oh my god I want to grow up to be Garnet. "I am made of love" is a concept I strive for unceasingly.
Also bonobos have the right idea. That is all.
b) You are prepared to have read my profile and followed these guidelines (if I get a message from someone who obviously just glanced at my picture and decided to message me, I simply won't respond.)
c) You are interested in actually having conversations, as opposed to simply telling me we should fuck without knowing me at all.