34 Woensel, Netherlands
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My self-summary
Smart people can look like glamour models.
Stupid people can look like librarians.

I think what I think,
I do what I do.
I look how I look,
And the same for you.

And if all fall in a region,
For both you and me,
We might like each other,
Send a message and we'll see.
I have more info listed on this page, honestly detailing all about me right from the start. I'll leave it all for now below, but skip it all if you have the heart.

I have hundreds of stories to tell that didn't fit anywhere and I'll meet you for almost anything.

I don't specifically want or look for. But I like people who are honest (maybe even too much so) or interesting or have something going on or keep a conversation going on another basis.
Ik spreek en schrijf ook Nederlands.
My sister in law told me I have a nice voice to listen to. A close friend told me I have interesting eyes. Another good friend forbade me to shave my head in solidarity "because you have awesome hair". Someone else tells me I'm deceptively strong (for an IT nerd) - DIY and motorcycles I guess. I'm also told I make great cakes and brownies, the latter I definitely agree. It's a point of pride. Live with it.

My twitter:
My EE-Stack profile (for more techy people?):

Steam name Merdosh.
What I’m doing with my life
Freelancing. Helping people I like. And also:
I’m really good at
I'm good at becoming acceptable at things quickly.
Making Brownies. It's an established fact.
Making up sketches and jokes inside my head that make me laugh uncontrollably, but that cannot be explained to any degree to anyone else.

I'm horribly bad at realising how thought through some stuff I say is. I'm also less good than average at expressing my thoughts in normal human terms before I've finished thinking them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know.
I'm told I can seem intimidating, which sucks, because I'm really not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't really know how this bit really helps, but okay... Here goes (you asked for it!):

I cook. I try to do it well. But I like many kinds of food in all kinds of situations.

Books: Good stories, with plot lines.
I was surprised to find I liked Kathy Reichs' crime/thriller books when I started them. (They later created the basis for Bones.)

TV: British comedy, panel shows and stand-up. Some drama (not all though). Some sci-fi (like ST-TNG, but none of that Brannon Braga or JJ Abrahams slurry. Or Firefly)
I prefer TV as background audio when I'm doing things while alone at home.

In the case of music: Anything that isn't easily replicated by slamming one's head repeatedly into a cheap late-90's keyboard. Examples?
The six things I could never do without
There's a lot I really, really prefer to not do without.

But with just water and basic foods that nourish I'll make it anywhere eventually.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All. None. I'm good at over-thinking on occasion.

- Where can I best hide my thoughts, once they have foolishly left the front of my face?
- If you colour everywhere outside the lines, are you not just colouring inside the lines again?
- Can you be accused of having lost your mind if you know where you left it, but just refuse to use it?
- Does anybody care that "You don't know what you've got, until it's gone" is a temporal inaccuracy?
On a typical Friday night I am
very disappointed about finally having established "a typical Friday night".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ehhhh... I think creepy things some times.
You should message me if
If you're not the kind of person who needs me to tell them when to send a message.