34Woensel, Netherlands
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My self-summary
Genetic makeup:
70% Male human
23% Unidentifiable alien
4% House fly
3% Elephant
Ik spreek en schrijf ook Nederlands.
Can't say "I'm looking for", but if we're talking hoping to come across, it's people I get along with. Since the vast majority here treats this as dating/hookup only, I mostly look at female profiles, to save wasted time, men are great and all, but not physically attractive to me. I'm a fan of physical intimacy, but also just interesting people to go on a bike tour with/visit/play boardgames with/etc, so feel free to scroll down to the messaging section, even if it's only for the chance to be allowed in my lab.
My sister in law told me I have a nice voice to listen to. A close friend told me I have interesting eyes. Another good friend forbade me to shave my head in solidarity "because you have awesome hair". Someone else tells me I'm deceptively strong - DIY and motorcycles I guess. Recently someone said that once I get over the stage fright related to it specifically I can sing acceptably. And I was the only one drinking Gin.

On account of me wanting to be fully open and honest, here's some links:
My twitter:
My EE-Stack profile (for more techy people?):

Steam name Merdosh.

What I’m doing with my life
Freelancing. Helping people I like. Bicycling shitloads.

Used to be a decent dancer of almost anything and sort of wanting to pick it back up. Something Latin preferably, always liked chacha, samba, salsa and zouk. But not horrible at others either.
I’m really good at
Making Brownies, cakes and other goodies. It's an established fact.
Making up sketches and jokes inside my head that make me laugh uncontrollably, but that cannot be explained to any degree to anyone else.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know.
I'm told I can seem intimidating initially, which sucks, because I'm really not.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't really know how this bit helps, but okay...

I like many kinds of food in all kinds of situations. Omnivore who'll happily spend a week on fruit and/or vegetables alone. Started baking gluten free and vegan things once in a while as a challenge. (not based on vegan/gluten free recipes.) Genetically strongly dislike peanuts, but it's okay if other people have them near me.

Books: Good stories, with plot lines.
I was surprised to find I liked Kathy Reichs' crime/thriller books when I started them long ago. (They later were the basis for Bones.) Surprised because I got put off the genre by several other authors, but she grabs me with her reality, I suppose.

TV: British comedy, panel shows and stand-up. Some drama (far from all though). Quite a bit of sci-fi (like ST-TNG, or Firefly). Have an aversion -but not hate- for hypes.

In the case of music: Anything that isn't easily replicated by slamming one's head repeatedly into a cheap late-90's keyboard.
Six things I could never do without
There's a lot I really, really prefer to not do without.

But with just water and basic foods that nourish I'll make it anywhere eventually. If only because of the DIY and improvisational skills.

(I do always carry a creditcard though, if you're stuck somewhere in a hecticly busy week a hotel still beats a park bench.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All. None. I'm good at over-thinking on occasion.

- Where can I best hide my thoughts, once they have foolishly left the front of my face?
- If you colour everywhere outside the lines, are you not just colouring inside the lines again?
- Can you be accused of having lost your mind if you know where you left it, but just refuse to use it?
- Does anybody care that "You don't know what you've got, until it's gone" is a temporal inaccuracy?
On a typical Friday night I am
very disappointed about finally having established "a typical Friday night".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Many of my question answers and especially the explanations were done at moments I felt bored and wanted to amuse myself. Match scores are now screwed up by the fact they started to change old questions and their answers without a glance of thought, so I don't feel any guilt about it anymore.
You should message me if

If you do send a message, I'd like to be able to find you interesting. Which means either your message should be interesting (which I suck at myself, so there's another option: ), or you should have some substance to your profile, or amazing pictures (of things, situations, or whatnot, or maybe yourself). But something somewhere that can start a good conversation would really help.
The two of us