I believe we should be passionate about life, in as many ways as possible. Explore, seek, search, have fun, ponder the interior, flirt with chaos. Hungry curiosity about the world. And I'm a yin/yang sort; a balance is needed between the physical and the intellectual. I like intimacy in both contexts. I love love love intelligent conversation. Surprise me.
I am a girl, which means I like to dress up. Fun with fashion. However, while I am a clothes horse I am not a fashion slave. I am and always have been complete in myself. Many things enhance my life: friends, men, clothes, art, fiction, music, my friend's kids, family, cats, nature, etc. I create my life and if I'm bored with it, I try to change it.
Creativity and an open mind--these things excite me. Trying different things, looking at the world anew. Spicy adventures with a bit of sweet. I hope to never lose this view. I have not always found new doors to try. Sometimes they've been pointed out, but I'm often opening them to look or even step inside. I'm spiritual but don't push my beliefs. Everyone has their own path and that's what true freedom means; follow your path as long as it doesn't hurt others.
My profile is like one of my stories. I'm constantly tweaking and updating it. Other items of interest: bunnies, bellydance, sex, erotica, spicy food, trance, space, science, mysticism, ritual, SF, fantasy, art, conservation, the environment, weird science, space.
I am fiery, nonconformist, and spiritual
Other than that....I'm exploring, getting back to bellydance, plotting another novel, did an escape room (love 'em) and tastings at the distillery. Last year was too busy: so I'm hoping the pace evens out and I can smell the flowers. :) I'm about to get my first tat; ink in less than a week.
Movies--Cabin in the Woods. Guardians of the Galaxy. I love good mind candy. Loved What Dreams May Come. Just can't always remember the names of what I last saw, but any Greenaway or Fellini films are just fine by me. Benjamin Button. Game of Thrones. Don't have a TV, really, but watch on the laptop. Oh, and yes I do like Once Upon a Time. I've just watched all of Dr. Who (the new ones). Some of its brilliant even though I don't like time travel tales that much.
Music--all over the map here but alternative is the most likely with some rock, punk, jazz, psychedelic. Portishead, David Bowie(sniff) , Brian Eno, Bif Naked, Modest Mouse, Faun, Woodland, Delhi to Dublin, Loreena Mckennitt, Feist, Hawksley Workman, *shrug*. The list could go on...
And foods--Thai is the ultimate fave. Otherwise, spicy, interesting, crunchy. Seafood of almost any flavor (except maybe urchin). Chocolate (dark), red wine, dark rum, good English style cider (not the poppy Canuck stuff). Absinthe, working on the boggy sock scotches. Overall, I'm a water or wine sort and don't drink coffee or tea.
On a dessert island (this is a typo but I kinda like it as a dessert island) it would include chocolate, red wine, shrimp and medical supplies. There could be six things of food, of survival and of many other things. But one must ask, why six?
And this: if you're looking for a woman to toss you over her shoulder and drag you to her cave, then I'm not that gal. Had to be strong all the time for the ex and while I'm strong in some ways I'm not in others. It's about balance. I'd like a strong partner too. Not King Kong, mind you. Fleas and the banana smell get overwhelming.
Because it seems people either think meeting the first time is a hookup or a blind date for life, I'm looking for friends first. I need to expand my friend pool and if you're not willing to get together and chat, then we won't get along. Who knows, maybe it would lead to something more but friendships are precious and I would like to have a few more friends with diverse interests.
Don't message me if:
• you ask for my ph # and when I give it, you stop talking, WTF?
• you don't divulge information about yourself
• have no intention of meeting
• have no picture (of your actual face), or no profile = no answer
• want to talk about sex and haven't met me in person
• want the first meet to be at my place. I mean, really?
• think I'm desperate for a booty call (you're not that hot)