I keep my OkCupid account open even though I have only been contacted by 15 people. I like reading profiles of people (I have contacted a lot of people but very few ever go anywhere) But I have a criteria list: Match and Friend should be above 50% Enemy should be below 33% Imaginary friends (religion) should not rule or be a major part of your life. You shouldn't get basic science questions wrong i.e. the earth is not bigger than the sun. You should be both diverse and cultured. Yes Black people (especially this Black person) are allowed to like country music , cartoons, RPG's, Renaissance Faires, martial arts, steampunk and cultures other than the one I was born into. If you talk like you don't have a basic understanding of the english language (grammar, syntax, etc.) you had better have been a native speaker of another language. As you can see from my wife I prefer my women on the plump side but I like all kinds of women and if you have sexy brains you are more than welcome. If sex is what you have in mind I am all for it but my wife only allows women that she finds attractive as well so even if you aren't planning on being with both of us you still have to be a genuinely fun person to hang out with. I have touched on everything but drugs. I dont mind 420 friendly people but I cant hang I go everywhere with my inhaler for a reason no cigarettes for the same reason. As long as you aren't a person that NEEDS to get drunk I am ok with that too. Anything else and I am afraid you are a no go. sorry. I know this sounds like I am something of a dick but I am really not. I have just gotten too old to filter bs 24/7 so I put this out here to let you know that what I am looking for and what I expect. One of the good things about finding my wife is that she helped me consolidate a lot of loose ends in my life. At my age I think I have earned the level of social indifference that makes me want some kind of filter between me and those who would attempt to change or distort who I am. I am doing the things I like with the people I like and I can always add more people to that list. You may be one of those people but over the years I have figured out the kind of people I don't like and who don't like me. Hence the criteria. You don't have to want sex, we also play D&D, Pathfinder, Monopoly, Wii and Xbox we have bonfires once in a while and epic parties with and without clothes. If I sound marginally interesting drop me a line I would love to chat. I have ADD so I love to have new brains to play with and pick through. :)
Not necessarily in that order.