32 Bound Brook, United States
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My self-summary
I am:

warm hearted yet cool headed.
not the best driver.
honest without being insulting.
kind without being a pushover.
intellectual without being snobbish.
detail oriented without missing the big picture.
trusting without being foolish.
not the best at selling myself on here.
fun but capable of being serious.
open minded but not naive.
passionate but not crazy.
spontaneous but not reckless.
quirky but not alienating.
sometimes repetitive.
comfortable with unresolved paradoxes and contradictions.
constantly growing and learning.
not this stiff and formal in conversation.
amazed that you've read this far.
sometimes repetitive.
quite allergic to cats.
I’m really good at
problem solving.
being silly.
being serious.
laughing at myself.
qualifying my answers.
making lists.
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Feel free to skip this section, as it's quite long relative to the rest of the profile, but I do think it reveals a tiny bit about my personality and my interests. It's not just a list of stuff... well, most of it anyway.

My tastes tend to be fairly broad, from the esoteric to the mainstream.

For reading, I'm more of a periodical reader (The New Yorker, The New Scientist, The NY Times) than a book reader, although I will read a book if I find it interesting enough. I tend more towards non-fiction (Revelations, Propaganda, The Way We Never Were) than fiction (Super Sad True Love Story, Through The Looking Glass, Wigfield) in the written word.

For fiction, I prefer film and TV. I tend to go for things that have some sort of comedic element to them, particularly of the absurdist variety, such as Parks & Recreation or Female Trouble, although I do enjoy straight up serious documentary/drama, such as Frontline or Persona, as well. I also enjoy genre stuff, especially sci-fi, like Doctor Who or Star Trek (2009).

Musically, I like pretty much everything genre-wise (especially pop, both Top 40 and indie) although some genres, like metal or mainstream rap, require a very specific and rather infrequently encountered mood to be enjoyed. I also could never really get into.
The six things I could never do without
Something good to eat
Something good to drink
Friends and family
A space that is my own
Quality sleep
Electricity (except for maybe a week or so at a time)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My thinking. My feelings. Food. The Future and other Big questions. The task at hand. Putting off the task at hand.
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying life as usual.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I only wear briefs (although I usually wear pants, shoes, socks, and a shirt with them if I'm going out in public). I also sometimes dance in my room in nothing but said briefs.
You should message me if
it feels right.