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My self-summary
I'm soft spoken, but not too concerned with being polite. I seek accuracy, and the truth. Not that either can be found in it's purest form.

I'm kinky, looking for an open relationship, and am open to polyamory as well. Not that love is strictly defined. What's the difference between a fuck bud, a friend with benefits, and a romantic partner? Blurring lines is a specialty of mine.

So, since this is apparently a big deal for people, I'll go ahead and say this here: I'm not a pet person and would greatly prefer to live without a pet.

Also, I'm HIV+ with an undetectable viral load. If you like what you see in the rest of my profile but you're hung up about the HIV thing, please ask me about it; I'm happy to help dispel any fears you may have.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm pursuing a few different ideas as to what I want to with my life, for the foreseeable future. My idea of getting into porn has had the most success so far. Being an educator of some sort is another idea. And of course, none of these are mutually exclusive ideas.

As I've done more and more with kink lately, the more confident I've become, with who I am and what I want, and this confidence is related to far more than merely the sexual. Confidence is the difference between being a nobody and making the world your oyster. And that's the journey I'm on, now. Oh, and going back to the kink, I've realized it's something I can't do without, it's just far too fun. ;-)
I’m really good at
Cutting to the heart of the matter. Politeness, inflated egos, and drama, among other things, are a waste of time and distract from the things that truly matter. Fortunately, my dry sarcasm cuts through all such distractors with ease.

Solving abstract problems. Theories of math, theology, and philosophy are no match for me when I give such things my full attention. It also makes me good at reading people, which in turn makes me good at giving advice.

Games. I've never become an expert at anything, but I'm naturally very talented with gaming. There are very few games--whether they're video/computer games, boardgames, card games, or anything else really--that I can't win the majority (more than half) of the time. You have been warned.

Making coherent sentences when I'm too tired to plan what I'm going to say in advance. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short and soft spoken. And can be sarcastic as hell.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Harry Potter, The Lord of the Rings, His Dark Materials, Good Omens, some Star Wars novels, The Last Herald-Mage (trilogy), Ender's Game, anything written by Timothy Zahn.

Music: Bach, Handel, Vivaldi, Beethoven, Mozart, Shubert, The Beatles, Enya, The Lord of the Rings, Bim, Lady Gaga, The Shins, St. Vincent

Movies: The Lord of the Rings, The Incredibles, Amelie, V for Vendetta, The Dark Knight, Serenity, Love Actually, The Matrix, The Matrix Reloaded, The Bourne Trilogy, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Moonrise Kingdom

TV: The Colbert Report
Six things I could never do without
I'll be adding these as I think of them.

Music - I can go for hours without listening to anything and then go for hours listening to music nonstop. Besides that, I come from a musical family with both my parents and brother being singers, and while I can sing, I tend to favor other musical instruments more. I've played the flute since 5th grade and I'm currently self-teaching myself to play the piano.

Thinking - As I've mentioned, I love creating stories and scenarios in my head. I also tend to think of more philosophical stuff, which can also fit in with my stories, amazingly enough.

Sex - Talking about it, having it, watching it. It's part of being human, and a rather large part for me. It is inextricably linked to who I am as a person, and necessary to be fully me. It enlivens, excites, and invigorates not only the body, but the mind and emotions as well. At least for me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to become finacially independent with little to no effort on my part. ;-)

The mysteries of the universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home playing computer games. Or having sex, at my place or someone else's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In the right mood I'm willing to admit most anything.
You should message me if
You want to meet up sometime. Talking to someone in person is a lot more informative and quite a bit faster than endless online conversations. And please message me first, I'm not a fan of random people wanting to chat with me.
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