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My self-summary
Hello my name is Bernie and I am bringing back chivalry in a big way! I am looking for someone to get to know and hopefully be in a long term relationship with. I try to be a perfect gentleman at all times (the modern concept of “gentleman” originally came from the “courtesy book” derived from the medieval code of chivalry). I am looking for one woman, and one woman only and I do not cheat, ever, no exceptions. I am an Eagle Scout and I lead a troop of boy scouts. I see myself as a very loyal, courteous and friendly person all around. I am not however very good at spelling... Bad spellers of the world UNTIE! If your looking for a good guy who respects women and can still care for himself then I am your man! Of course if your looking for the bad boy vulgar ruffian then I don't come very well recommended I suppose.

Every knight needs his lady of course! If you think you are my type then the biggest thing that I look for is trustworthiness. I want someone I can talk to, tell them how I think and feel. I am looking for a partner and I want that partner to understand me. This is a two way street though, I want to understand you as well. I want to be someone that you can talk to and trust. I once played a card game where one of the first rules was “there is an exception to every rule” and this is the exception to that rule... I am not willing to bend on trustworthiness.

My lady must also be intelligent, fair minded, and loyal. If your silly, witty, bubbly or in some other way fun to be around that's awesome. In fact I find that to be attractive. Honestly as long as your not downright dumb, we can probably get along.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am finishing up my degree at Husson University. After that it really depends on what is open in the job market. I have a job now that I really enjoy but it isn't where I want to be with my life (hence the reason I go to school :p) I have a plan where in 8 years I will be starting my own business. I have several options that I would enjoy and I am not going to attempt to narrow them down till I get closer to time. Its fun coming up with possibilities for each and with the market fluctuating I cant really predict what will be in demand 8 years down the road.

I lead a troop of boy scouts. We are very active and I try very hard to be a good role model for them. I do not see this changing any time in the near future.

Other than that, I hang out with friends and read books. I just finished "Towers of Midnight" in the Wheel of time series and I cant wait for the last book to come out.
I’m really good at
I am a hobbyist, I tend to get really good at one thing and then move on to another. However my main strength is my ability to plan ahead. I am an excellent thinker and can usually reason out any problem logically.

I also tend to listen and give advice really well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am assuming this means other than physical appearance so going with that... I would say people tend to notice my manors first. I am a very well spoken and polite person, even under pressure and in hostile environments (my boss loves to tell me to deal with disgruntled customers).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are by far the Wheel of Time series. It is such a shame that Robert Jordan (the author) passed away. However, Brandon Sanderson has picked it up beautifully and the series will have a conclusion.

Favorite movies consist mostly of comedy, Rat Race and Rush Hour are the ones that really stand out. I did enjoy the resident Evil movies though I don't usually like horror movies and the Bourne Trilogy was pretty awesome.

For music I tend to listen to primarily rock. Disturbed and Aerosmith are my favorite bands but I don't really refuse to listen to anything other than rap.

For food I like a good mix of things. I am a very good cook so I regularly cook the things I like making it very hard to pin down something that I like and yet dont have often enough to get used to having it.
Six things I could never do without
My Family
Good Company
A goal to pursue
My current project (whatever that is at the time)
My Hobbies
Raw food, hard to cook without it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future is where my head almost always is. I am always contemplating possibilities, strategies and contingencies. I like having a plan and analyzing that from every angle so I don't get surprised. When I am not thinking about the future its probably because I am playing problem solver and I am usually quite good at that too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sadly I work until 9 pm Fridays (10 pm over the summer). Its pretty draining as Fridays are our busy night but it makes time go by quick and I do like my job. After that I hang out with whoever is around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Im pretty open about just about anything. As a matter of fact I think here is a good place to post a challenge. Ask me any question, any at all, and I will answer it honestly. I dont know too many people that will claim that but I have seen at least 1 other person do it. Its not hard to be honest.

Also the site has changed a bit since the last time I logged in and I am having a bit of trouble finding the search button.
You should message me if
You should message me if...
You have a question for me,
You think I am your kind of guy,
You know a good joke,
You want to mess with me,
Really any reason I would love to talk to you.

I have a minimum of 21 age limit because I want to avoid the "please buy me alcohol" situation. Frankly age maters little to me, I am looking more for someone at a decent maturity level and place in life rather than hard set age. If you aren't going to put me in that situation feel free to contact me at any age.
The two of us