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My self-summary
I'm a geek, a nerd, and a history buff. I'm a father of two, and admit that they have me wrapped around their fingers. I'm not terribly concerned about trying to be a macho man. I used to be a teacher, but life steered me in other directions, which led me to where I am now. Currently, I work more in IT for a living, but enjoy more artistic endeavors when I have time (3D printing in particular). Life is good.

My marriage opened in 2013 as mono-poly. This allowed my wife to explore her poly nature while I chose to remain monogamous. In the last year, I've realized that I wanted to expand my views about myself and relationships, and to start exploring beyond monogamy as well.

I'm mostly interested in meeting new people and making friends. I'm open to more than platonic friendships, but that is not my main focus in general. Also, I'm not looking for threesomes or other forms of sharing people/partners with my wife, though my wife is open to those possibilities. We've not had any interest in dating the same person. Anyone that I become friends with or explore more with will likely meet my wife at some point. :-) Everything is on the level with her.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my kids with my wife (sometimes taking 'shifts' for mental breaks) and learning new tech skills. I read a lot, but have been focusing on learning more about 3D printing. I have a wide range of interests, but unfortunately there are too many for me to feasibly be able to pursue them all.
I’m really good at
My wife would say I'm really good at getting on her nerves, but she also says I'm a great father. I used to be good at tailoring clothes/costumes and armor construction, but I haven't made much of either for a while.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either that I have a face or hair, depending on which direction I'm facing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lord of the Rings, Ringworld, Xanth, Killer Angels, Shogun, too many more to list.
Shows: Gotham, How to Get Away With Murder, Daredevil, Dr Who, Battlestar Galactica, Inuyasha, The Walking Dead, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Arrow, Supernatural, Band of Brothers, Danger UXB, I Claudius, and much more.
Movies: Lord of the Rings, Das Boot, Saving Private Ryan, Timeline, Seven, Snatch, Silent Hill, Alien, Aliens, Blade Runner, Zoolander, most anything Bogart, Monroe, Connery, or Garafalo.
Music: Beethoven, Sex Pistols, Siouxi and the Banshees, Visage, Ultravox, Bauhaus, some Johnny Cash, Choplin, swing, The Damned, Mozart, Dvorzak, . . , again too many more.
Six things I could never do without
My wife, my children, my sight and hearing, my sanity. I'll think of a 6th thing at some point.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting older is not what it's cracked up to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Attempting to wind down from the work week with kids that are wound up for the weekend. If I'm lucky, my wife and I get to watch a show after the kids (finally) fall asleep.
You should message me if
- If you find me interesting, even if just as a possible friend.

- If you have an understanding of poly or other open (ethically non-monogamous) relationship types. It's nice to have people to talk to about it, even if we aren't exploring with each other.

Like I said, my wife (MsTurius) and I aren't looking for a threesome, a triad, couple swapping, or anything of that sort.
The two of us