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My self-summary
I think an open mind is the single most attractive quality in anyone, I adore anyone who can think differently and is unique enough to stand out and proud. I'm polyamorous and I enjoy talking to likeminded people (and people who completely disagree with me, in truth, that is even more important!).

I really like getting to know people- particularly if they break the mold, have an interesting story to tell, a controversial point of view or an unusual relationship dynamic.

I love people who think outside the box, truly open minded people, people who have the courage to stand up and say "I'm different" or who actively like alternative lifestyles.
Honesty is a big thing for me, I'm honest to the point of being slightly blunt sometimes so I hope I don't bother anyone with the way I am. I'm pretty laid back and not much phases me....try it ;) I'm (vaguely) intelligent, a science geek with a degree in physics and a passion for science and tech, and, obviously, I'm stunningly handsome. I'm a dreamer, and I like to think about the future, technology, gadgetry and all that stuff.

I've been trying to learn Japanese for the longest time, Its tough, but its fun to learn new things.
I've been known to stare into space sometimes, literally, its beautiful up there. I'm a little dizzy, forgetful, I've been told I act like a stereotypical mad scientist sometimes. Couldn't tell you the price of milk but I can calculate the Schwartzchild radius of a black hole (given certain parameters).

I currently work in for the NHS in nuclear medicine, hoping to rise further in a science career.

I'm a big gamer and I spend some of my spare time doing that, as well as household chores because someones got to do them right? I love Japan and anime, one day Ill visit, scope the amazing and weird toys and food one day and tour the shrines in Kyoto while the cherry blossom falls.

I generally try to champion individual freedoms and free speech.

I love to exchange ideas with people, though I am occasionally guilty of playing devils advocate just to understand a persons position better. I'm very interested in religion and why people believe what they believe.
What I’m doing with my life
I inject people with radioisotopes as a job. Im currently decorating my house.

Its far too normal... save me
I’m really good at
Listening, I am a technophile and tinker with a lot of things, wish I could upgrade all my stuff with self-cleaning, hasn't happened yet though.
I think I'm pretty good at talking to people - I'm rubbish at small talk but love to get into long, deep conversations . I'm also a good listener, and a great hugger.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a big, scruffy, cuddly type of fellow.
I get complimented on my eyebrows for some reason?

My spelling and grammar can tend to be quite bad at times, and I suck at small talk, sorry for that in advance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't generally read that much, I wish I could say it was because I didn't have time but honestly its more because I find it very difficult. Don't worry though I'm totally cultured in other ways, I've been to the theater you know, yeah, impressed now arn't you?

Lost in Translation Is probably my favourite film, when I first watched it it really clicked with me, the quiet loneliness in a big city, Bill Murry being awesome, and Scarlett Johannsen looking cute before she got way to thin. Battle Royale (Japanese Kids, Weapons, Death whats not to like?), Spirited Away (Generally anything by Miyazaki, stunningly beautiful), Snatch, Layer Cake. Phantom of the Opera (Music, mask, BDSM vibe running through it, It's badass). Fucking Labyrinth! Now tell me that isn't the most awesome film of the 80's Bowie should be in everyfilm as far as I'm concerned.

I listen mostly to rock/metal and electronic stuff. Prodigy, Pendulum, Daft punk, loads of heavy and high energy stuff.....Babymetal..... I sorry... I know.....

Food is Sushi, love sushi, close 2nd is anything else Japanese, Junk food, pizza, burgers, Its the reason i'm such a fat guy right now!
pizza.. while laying on the sofa.. with a film.. and someone else
The six things I could never do without
Bit of time to be lazy in
interesting people

not necessarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I plan on doing with my life. Although, recently, things have been going pretty well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing as little as possible on a night in, I'm not adverse to going out, its just that I am a classic introvert, I recharge my batteries by staying in in quiet groups with close friends.
I can be found playing a co-op game with friends, watching subtitled horror films with friends, or maybe, just maybe having a couple of beers in a city centre bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some of the time I can be quiet, because I like to listen more than talk, but i tend to jave some good conversations, im not silent.

I have a big thing for bbw / plus size women. No pun intended(!)
You should message me if
I love hearing from anyone at anytime, but because im me, ill list bullet points.
- You hold an opinion I disagree with and don't get irritated by me incessantly asking questions, I love having my mind opened.
- You are a gamer girl (love you wonderful people)
- You have a very open mind (single most attractive quality in anyone)
- Curvy is a plus.
- You are poly and/or have questions about ethical non-monogamy.
- You are a girl who digs fat guys, I'm not sure if those even exist!

Id love to talk to anyone who ticks one of those boxes.