My name is JAM (initials anyways). I don't check okcupid anymore. However to get a direct email to me search eugene craigslist personals for JAM or transsexual looking for friends. Make the email header "OKC". This post is only for Eugene people or other trans people thanks :)
I dress butchy and I dress feminine in equal measure, while my personality reflects a ever fluid and changing gal. Some describe me as having a more inquisitive, but strong willed and adventurous nature. I like the outdoors: camping, swimming, hiking, surfing, caving, nude beaching(omg). I'm crazy for asian food, and exotic dishes, but can appreciate a good old fashion slice of pizza etc.
I am somewhat of a "geek" at heart...scratch that I'm a raging geek haha and proud of it! When did intelligence become a bad thing? Intellectual conversations are definitely a plus for me, horrid grammar and pics of your dick, shockingly not so much!
I mainly enjoy PC/console gaming (yes.... I probably am that girl that fragged you /sadface). On the flip side I normally think very deeply about everything I encounter, and like friends who can share a deep conversation side. A guy/girl that's able to show their geeky side confidently is the quickest way to my heart. Lots of respectful affection, and weird funky candy (think li hing mui) is also a good route :P
As for movies I love futuristic/fantasy/horror/romantic comedy movies the most. I also -love- Japanese anime, and simply having a good time. I try to stay well rounded, and stubbornly try anything new at least once. I really don't drink, am absolutely fine with 420 people, but don't participate (I'm happy just the way I am lol). That said I do not like tobacco smoke, and long term dating a smoker is highly unlikely.
I'm really friendly (not like hey nice shoes... friendly haha) but I do tend to get along with everyone no matter their background or tastes. I rather enjoy public speaking, but sometimes I am just shy around smaller groups of people I don't know. Who isn't to be honest?
I want a partner that likes taking me out and enjoying just spending time together. This goes with friends as well. I want a partner who is completely comfortable having me hang out with friends from time to time or over at their house. If your too phobic to take a girl out in public, then your not the one for me. I'm also not looking for people over 31-32, just people around my age.
I'm currently in school as a biochemistry majory, hoping to be a medical professional or go into researcg someday. I'm an overachieving, very inquisitive, strait A student, but just to clarify I'm not an elitist bitch haha. Doing well in school is just very important to me.
As aforementioned I'm bi and have always been attracted to girls because they are cuddly (course body/facial hair usually puts me off). What I'm inevitably looking for is a partner with a funny, caring, and inclusive outlook. The kind of partner that would have no qualms about me cuddling up in their arms and falling asleep as they stroked my hair (I love this so much sometimes I think I'm part cat, "note to self I tend to land on my face rather then my feet"). I would also prefer a decently fit person, but still love little bit of a muffin on most butch girls XD (just being honest). Some say I'm the best of both worlds, but I like to think I'm no different then any other woman. That being said I'm not a caricature, and simply rock being me wherever that lands.
I'm very energetic and love finding the humor/positive side of everything. I'm a balance of quiet and talkative and prefer to share in a conversation, rather then ignore it or drive it. I'm the kinda woman that you would prolly just enjoy hanging out with. You'll be hard pressed to find a more real and deep gal then me, but I'll let you find that out for yourself. :)
Tell me a little about yourself in your first email, and feel free to ask anything you want about me within reason. I don't get offended by questions, as long as they're courteous.
For craigslist emails:
I respond to every email I get as long as they do the following:
As the Email Label: please put "OC". Emails without this WILL BE DELETED AUTOMATICALLY BY MY SPAM FILTER without me even having a chance to open them. Also emails that are under two sentences usually count for negative points :( "Intellectual conversations" remember?
Looking forward to chatting,
Would be my top 3
I like Japanese and Mexican food the most
Gaming related stuff
Just about anything that is a good conversation topic
Going on adventures