I'm poly. You should be too (no really you should be it's fun...).
Spending quality time dreaming about the possibilities as I uncover a potential career change.
Making kids laugh
Knowing what I like/don't like & want/don't want
Keeping my own personal boundaries
My quarter bouncing butt
The Better Angels of Our Nature by Steven Pinker
The Family Sabbatical Handbook: The Budget Guide to Living Abroad by Elisa Bernick
Lost City Radio by Daniel Alarcon
The Road to Serfdom by F.A. Hayek
The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Rice; A. Roquelaure
Beauty's Punishment by Anne Rice; A. Roquelaure
The Help by Kathryn Stockett
A Visit From The Goon Squad by Jennifer Egan
Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain by David Eagleman
Adagio Sostenuto (Opus 27)
My beautiful son. You should meet him. He's kind, hillarious, and amazing just like me. :-)
Adventure. There is never enough of it and I want more. I probably want some of it with you.
Clear communication. Let's get real with each other and leave imagination and drama at the door. Two consensual adults can be mature about what they want/don't want or need/don't need.
Physical contact. I like relationship that includes touch and intimacy with someone who is comfortable in their own skin. I respect my own boundaries and would like you to know and respect your own.
Trust. I work hard to know myself and to create agreements and boundaries I personally believe in. I want to trust my partners to be able to know themselves enough to only make agreements they believe in. It's easy to break an agreement you make with someone else...less easy when it's an agreement you make with yourself.
Genetic engineering, neuroscience, biology, technology, h+ and intentional evolution, robotics, and all kinds of amazing things people are discovering every day...mind boggling!
I have delicate ankles. Stop thinking about them. They're already embarrassed enough.
I've always wanted to be a Hollywood spy and stuntman...not a real spy...that's boring and you don't get to choose what you do or how. Hmmmm....maybe a good opportunity for our first date?
You are not afraid to get real & be transparent. We are all entitled to want what we want even if we don't get it. It isn't the end of the world to meet someone only to find out they don't fit.
You like adventure.
You enjoy & appreciate physical contact.
You are self reliant. I am a generous person but I am not interested in always fixing problems. I have largely stored the shiny knight armor. I really only get it out for special occasions (I.e. weddings, funerals, and kinky events involving donkeys & midgets).