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My self-summary
Knight in shining armor seeking new adventures. Intense, passionate, transparent, and intense...but in a fun way.

I'm poly. You should be too (no really you should be it's fun...).
What I’m doing with my life
Learning to live in each moment without trying to control the outcome while being self-aware & transparent enough to communicate what I want with others. This is getting easier every day.

Spending quality time dreaming about the possibilities as I uncover a potential career change.
I’m really good at
Making kids laugh
Knowing what I like/don't like & want/don't want
Keeping my own personal boundaries
The first things people usually notice about me
My intensity
My transparency
My quarter bouncing butt
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Getting Real: 10 Truth Skills You Need to Live an Authentic Life by Susan Campbell. Bonus points if you've read it too. I've also enjoyed some of her other titles including Saying What's Real: 7 Keys to Authentic Communication and Truth in Dating: Finding Love by Getting Real

The Better Angels of Our Nature by Steven Pinker

The Family Sabbatical Handbook: The Budget Guide to Living Abroad by Elisa Bernick

Lost City Radio by Daniel Alarcon

The Road to Serfdom by F.A. Hayek

The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Rice; A. Roquelaure

Beauty's Punishment by Anne Rice; A. Roquelaure

The Help by Kathryn Stockett

A Visit From The Goon Squad by Jennifer Egan

Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain by David Eagleman


Adagio Sostenuto (Opus 27)
Six things I could never do without
Transparency. If the very thought gives you hives you should avoid me like the plague.

My beautiful son. You should meet him. He's kind, hillarious, and amazing just like me. :-)

Adventure. There is never enough of it and I want more. I probably want some of it with you.

Clear communication. Let's get real with each other and leave imagination and drama at the door. Two consensual adults can be mature about what they want/don't want or need/don't need.

Physical contact. I like relationship that includes touch and intimacy with someone who is comfortable in their own skin. I respect my own boundaries and would like you to know and respect your own.

Trust. I work hard to know myself and to create agreements and boundaries I personally believe in. I want to trust my partners to be able to know themselves enough to only make agreements they believe in. It's easy to break an agreement you make with someone else...less easy when it's an agreement you make with yourself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I enjoy making plans almost as much as I enjoy living them in the moment. Dreams are best with feet.

Genetic engineering, neuroscience, biology, technology, h+ and intentional evolution, robotics, and all kinds of amazing things people are discovering every day...mind boggling!
On a typical Friday night I am
Could be hanging out with friends and family at home. Might be out on a random adults only adventure. Could be snuggled up next to you in front of two cups of Irish coffee. Ya just never know...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like sex. I like women who like sex.

I have delicate ankles. Stop thinking about them. They're already embarrassed enough.

I've always wanted to be a Hollywood spy and stuntman...not a real spy...that's boring and you don't get to choose what you do or how. Hmmmm....maybe a good opportunity for our first date?
You should message me if
You want to meet & will take a stab at putting something on an actual calendar.

You are not afraid to get real & be transparent. We are all entitled to want what we want even if we don't get it. It isn't the end of the world to meet someone only to find out they don't fit.

You like adventure.

You enjoy & appreciate physical contact.

You are self reliant. I am a generous person but I am not interested in always fixing problems. I have largely stored the shiny knight armor. I really only get it out for special occasions (I.e. weddings, funerals, and kinky events involving donkeys & midgets).
The two of us