38 Berlin, Germany
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My self-summary
I'm going to try to say as little about myself here as possible. But first a couple of ground rules:

1. Do NOT contact me if Gwyneth Paltrow has convinced you to steam your vagina. (Google it.)
2. If you've just cooked chicken wrapped in bacon and this is as close as you're ever going to get to being a vegan, then you've been waiting WAY too long to contact me already and you should do so immediately.

Born and raised in Chicago, USA but I've spent half my life in Europe. I've changed quite a bit since moving here, but I'm always getting better. Rugged, adaptable, sexualized-intellectual. I'm also in incredible shape!
What I’m doing with my life
Photographer. Author. Singer. Musician. And (former) CTO of a web company in Barcelona.

Just moved myself, my photo equipment, and my cat to Berlin. My favorite photographers are Halsman, Delacroix, and Clark. (Or if you want contemporary: Eugenio Recuencuo). My favorite writers are Balzac and Vargas Llosa. My favorite directors are John Huston and Stanley Kubrick.

The rest of the inspiration comes from my own eyes and ears.
I’m really good at
Massage. I was about two weeks away from a license in massage therapy. I have a photographic memory, and I'm naturally gifted in cryptography and computers. I'm also told that I'm a good cook and a talented poet and novelist. And a very, very, fast runner.
The first things people usually notice about me
Someone just told me they were walking by and weren't sure it was me... until they heard my laugh.

I'm also known for my smile... and my cat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: La Tia Julia y el escribador. Movie: The Malteese Falcon. Show: The Honeymooners/The Untouchables, Music: Rock, Folk, and Jazz. Food: Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Juice. Sex. Cheese. Sandwiches. Comedy. Stories.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nowadays I spend a lot of time thinking about how people will remember me. I know I'm kind of young to be thinking about things like "My Legacy"... but a legacy is built upon your life's work... and that life and its works are happening right now.

If all else fails I would be proud to be remembered as being "Cool."

So now I spend more time thinking about the present. I also like staring at my cat and wondering what he's thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I had something to do on a Friday night I would ABSOLUTELY not be on this site. I get invited to parties every now and then. Sometimes I have my own. But I really don't know what to do... by myself... on a Friday night. Give me one other person and suddenly I can see a world of options.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm nice... but I'm not SO nice that I wouldn't go down on you in a public park. People meet me and think "He would make a really good friend..." I would... but I would make an even better lover and an exemplary boyfriend.

I'm stronger... smarter... and more talented than your ex was and... what's more... I'm a better person. (And I'm modest.) (2016 Edit: EXTREMELY modest... and shy.)
You should message me if
I am ABSOLUTELY not looking for friends. Ok... correction... I'm not looking for friends on a dating site. I know lots of people are for some really weird reason... I am not among them.

So you should contact me if you're interested in someone who's time-consuming, and has an addictive laugh.

Good combinations:
1. You have enough time to actually spend time with someone.
2. You're short on time, but don't mind having an intense sexual experience.

BAD combinations:
1. You want a deep, meaningful relationship but you don't actually have time for it.
2. You want to fall in love instantly and expect it to last forever without any actual effort.