BDOK
33 Tulsa, United States
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My self-summary
I am a firm believer of face to face communication. I'm looking for that lady who has it all, including being able to have an awesome conversation. However, I figure we are all here for a reason, so get to know a little about me below.

I'm confident and humble, a business guy with an old soul. I'm patriotic and a pragmatic gentleman that uses both sides of my brain. I drop of my recyclables on the way to the gun range. I am competitive. I challenge myself to new experiences, life is too short to be serious or boring. I am creative with a good work ethic. I strive to learn as much as I can, as fast as I can. I can be a nerd from time to time, and I volunteer for different organizations. I have a green thumb and I like to build/create things with my hands. I own my own home, and do my best to shop local. I am an artist and I like to cook. I enjoy a good beer, wine or whiskey from time to time. I appreciate independent women who can take care of themselves. I believe everyone should be treated fairly, I am pro women's rights. I am a bit old fashioned and have good morals. I like to be upfront, forward and honest.

Family and friends are a large part of my life. I try to lead a healthy lifestyle and I have a bachelors degrees in both finance/business and in art. I always have some sort of crazy business idea. I slow down to speed up, enjoy the moment and appreciate the little things. I like to watch documentaries and go out to local events. I feel at home outdoors, as I enjoy camping and hiking. I watch some sports, although I'm not too much of a sports addict. Thunder Up!

I am on here because I chose to go back to school, and spent the last five years dedicated to work and my education. I'm not big into meeting ladies at the bar anymore.. So here we are. I am always open to having new friends, but I would like to eventually find that special lady to grow old with. I want a teammate, a best friend, someone who will stand beside me.
What I’m doing with my life
Everything I can. Working out, finance, artwork, cooking the best damn food you've ever eaten, home remodeling, traveling, helping others help themselves, community service, giving back.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh and feel good. I like to make fun out of awkward situations. I tend to naturally allow people to get comfortable, and become at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height, smile, eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, HIMYM. Dr. Who, It's Always Sunny in Philidelphia.

Books: World War Z, Outliers, The China Study, LOTR, Catcher in the Rye.

Music: Ghostland Obsevatory, Gogol Bordello, Johnny Cash, Bob Marley, Rufus Wainwright, Carl Carlton, Ryan Adams, Pretty Lights, Mumford and Sons, Flamming Lips, Flogging Molly, Nick Drake, Civil Wars, John Legend, Iron and Wine, Bon Iver, RHCP. Some of everything. Mostly singer/songwriter, indie and local music.

Movies: Documentaries, Comedy, Horror.
The six things I could never do without
Water
Health
Family/Friends
Art/Music
Coffee
Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What life experience will be next!
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking a nice stout or whiskey, conversing by a firepit, looking at the stars above. It's one of life's best treasures.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a sucker for long curly hair, pretty eyes and a nice big smile.
You should message me if
Communication and trust is key. You are genuine, positive and have integrity. You can be classy for a night on the town, but relax in sweat pants for a night at home. You can be sexy in your own way, and still enjoy a good beer. You truly enjoy helping others and having new experiences. If you are outgoing, open minded, funny, intelligent and have similar interests - that is a bonus. Random bouts of being silly is appreciated, as I like a good sense of humor. If you don't take care of yourself or your body, and you don't lead a healthy lifestyle, you probably aren't someone I would date.

I'm not a huge fan of watching a stranger eat. I'd rather grab a coffee, or a few drinks and then walk around an interesting part of town.
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