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My self-summary

... BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN ONE WHO NEEDS/WANTS TIME ALONE... I jump right back in the sea when I am not on the beach of a monogamous relationship.


I can be shy and am sometimes afraid to make the first contact.... on other occasions I do easily... but if I've visited and/or ranked you high or saved you to favorites and have NOT messaged you, it may mean I'm intrigued, but do not know how to begin.....I do love it when the Lady makes 1rst contact, but if I feel strong enough about a person and the potential of friendship/more, I will reach out

I REALLY DIG BLACK AND RED YIN-YANGS…. (I know, totally random)

{I try to be very thorough in my description of who I am and what I am looking for… if you really want to know more about me, read on… it's really all there, and I'm happy to answer any questions or elaborate on any statements... And if you want another side to glimpse, check out my youtube page- BLYX1313} is the url.

Featured link: (song/video)

QUOTE/LYRIC OF THE WEEK (or longer if it's a good one)

For of all the sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: "It Might Have Been!" — Dean Koontz "Dragon Tears"

If we move closer to each other by half the distance, no matter if we start a mile apart or an inch, and no matter how many times we cut that distance in half, we will never come together.

(((((--as for the following paragraph, I have kinda changed my single minded pursuit of "THAT ONE" after 3 major long relationships that ended in heartbreak and/or depression including a divorce and the recent end of the woman I've been with since '13... now I am wanting to date and have fun but if the right person comes, then yes, I do still want to just be with one person I trust and love and can live the rest of my life with---)))

ULTIMATELY, I WANT SOMEONE TO BUILD AND SHARE A LIFE WITH... THE OTHER "HALF TO MY WHOLE" IS WHAT I TRULY DESIRE. ...but I would surely enjoy meeting a woman who may not be "THE ONE" but is still a person with whom I can share a good time and friendship: -hang out, watch tv/movies, go out to the movies and/or dinner, have a drink with, play xbox with or go with me when I take my son to the park, etc… ("a good time" does not mean just someone to have sex with... though I am not a nun/priest and do enjoy engaging in sexual activity very much! I do not require a relationship or commitment to seek and enjoy pleasure with someone the circumstances are right.))

... someone to play chess with would be a big plus!! the people I meet tend to not know how or just dont want to play. I'm not a great chess player, but not bad either; and I find it rewarding to use thought and strategy in "play".

About Me: I Love TooL (and all Maynard James Herbert Keenan's endeavors, like A Perfect Circle and Puscifer as well.), Portishead, NIN, Mushroomhead, Billie Holiday, Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Clive Barker, Xbox 360, tv and movies, and above all MY Son, Maxxdread!!!( I bet he is the only one in the world with that name, hehehe.)

AND MUSHROOMHEAD IS ON MY TOP 5 LIST.the FB group i created is the largest and #1 Mushroomhead group on there.... that still amazes me... if you look for it, MuSHRooMHeaD HeaDS is the name

Since there is no artist section, I have to say mine are Alex Grey {found at}, Chet Zar {found at}, Naoto Hattori, {found at} and HR Giger, {found at}

I took the "The What Kind of Girl are You Test" for shits-&-giggles... (I didnt think it would let me since my profile clearly says male) ... I scored "Nice and Sexy" HA!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Working to keep things afloat. I run the cutting room of an offset printing supply company (I'm the department head/manager of the cutting room. it's a very small buisness) my son is my main thing of course but mostly i go to work, come home, play xbox, watch tv or a movie or read, go to bed then start all over again.
.... I miss bowling, pool, riding my bike, playing tennis , and going walking/hiking, but I'm getting to start doing more of those things again recently.
I’m really good at
thinking... cynicism... creativity... sarcasm... helpfulness... smartassedness... writing poetry and even writing a poem on demand about any topic I have at least a little knowledge of... Xbox 360 Xbox ONE... daydreaming/pondering... philosophy... I'm sure there is another few but I'm drawing a blank for now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm open... if you ask me my opinions or beliefs, I have no problem enthusiastically telling you... if you really want to know. ....sometimes I wear my opinions or beliefs on my clothes like favorite band T-shirts or writing the names of my favorite authors, quotes from movies, or just famous phrases on various things with markers (I tend to customize a lot of my things) ... I try to look on the outside like the person I am on the inside. I know I shouldn't care but I can't help it... but at least I do it as much for me as for public appearence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
House of a 1000 Corpses/Devil's Rejects, Apocalypse Now, Seven, Once Upon a Time in America, The Wall, Band of Brothers, Team America, The Terminators (all), Baseketball, Orgazmo, We Were Soldiers, Moulin Rouge, Taxi Driver, Across the Universe, Legend, Labrynth, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Seven, Lock Stock and two Smoking Barrels and Snatch, The Jacket, Pulp Fiction and Resevior Dogs Spaceballs, Blazing Saddles, 12 Monkeys, The Big Lebowski, The Butterfly Effect, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Youth in Revolt, Super Troopers, Undercover Brother, Repo: A Genetic Opera, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, The Dark Crystal, U Turn, Clay Pigeons, Machete ... and sooo many others. (not in order of favorites or interest)

South Park, Seinfeld, The Venture Brothers, Squidbillies, Meyalocalypse, Tosh.0, Futurama, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Daily Show and The Colbert Report, Stroker and Hoop, Workaholics, 30 Rock, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, News Radio, Louie and Lucky Louie The Simpsons, Love Adult Swim, UFC various shows on History and Discovery channels, ...etc .

Tool ~~~~ Portishead ~~~~ Mushroomhead ~~~~Billie Holiday ~~~NIN~~~ Fionna Apple~~~ In This Moment ~~~ AC/DC~~~ A Perfect Circle ~~~ Puscifer~~~PanterA ~~~ Unknown Hinson~~~ Deftones~~~The Cranberries~~~ Curve ~~~Poe~~~ Blowfly~~~ System of a Down ~~~ Marylin Manson ~~~~ Charles Manson~~~~ Danzig~~~~ Megadeath ~~~ King Diamond/Mercyful Fate ~~~Slayer ~~~ Silverchair~~~ Frank Sinatra~~~ Nat King Cole ~~~ Rage Against the Machine ~~~Pink Floyd ~~~The Doors ~~~ Led Zeppelin ~~~Suicidal Tendencies~~~Super Joint Ritual~~~Rammstein~~~Lollipop Lust Kill~~~ Static X~~~ Sneaker Pimps ~~~ Anathema~~~ Billy Idol~~~ Queen~~~ Miles Davis/ Thelonious Monk/John Coltrane ~~~Alice in Chains ~~~Radiohead~~~ One Minute Silence ~~~GWAR~~~Ozzy/Black Sabbath~~~ David Bowie~~~ Twisted Sister~~~ Type O Negative~~~Supreme Beings of Leisure ~~~Kittie ~~~ Veruca Salt~~~The Simpsons Sing the Blues~~~ Storm Large and the Balls ~~~ TOOL TOOL TOOL TOOL~~~ ....etc. many many more

The Scarlet Gospels The Dark Tower vol.1 thru 7---- Insomnia---- Desperation ---The Stand----Cell——Under the Dome----Duma Key——The Long Walk---Imajica---WeaveworldThe Great and Secret Show and Everville----IT----- Strangers---Intensity----One Door Away From Heaven---From the Corner of His Eye---KOKO-- --Fields of Fire--- The 13th Valley---From the Corner of His Eye---- Dream Catcher---Titan, Wizard, and Demon (a John Varley trilogy)--- Thomas Harris__(The complete Hannible series; i.e. Red Dragon, Silence of the Lambs, Hannible, and Hannible Rising)--------- (ALL Stephen King(my #1) and Dean Koontz and Clive Barker (both are close 2nds!!!) way too many to list… just look at what all 3 of my favs have written and that would be a good start to listing the books i like. then a couple by Peter Straub, John Varley, John Saul, Bently Little, and various others but like i said, mostly KING, KOONTZ, AND BARKER

FYI- Bently Little is getting more worth mentioning the more books of his i read


George Carlin, Louis C.K., Louis Black, Daniel Tosh, Mitch Hedberg, Patton Oswald, Rodney Dangerfield, Sam Kinison, Maria Bamford, Zack Galifianakis, old Eddie Murphy and Richard Pryor stand-up, Andrew Dice Clay, Gallagher, Doug Stanhope, Bobcat Goldthwait, old Howie Mandel, Billy Connolly, and Louie Anderson stand-up from the 80's/early 90's.... more but cant think right now.

Love lots of food. STEAK RULES!!!.... and I love a good Pizza... I love FRUIT and I love PICKLES!! ...probably the same stuff most people like except I don't eat cheese.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING!!! unfortunately ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not admitting to just everyone... talk to me a bit first, jeez.... hehehe ....... ok, here is a little something.... one time while being intimate with my future wife/future ex-wife, I was on my back, and when the moment "came" .... the "moment" ended up in my own eye ( guess I had some pressure built up cause it shot far) ... so now I know what its like guess I had it coming ;} at least when girls talk about , " you men don't know what its like to be hit in the eye with that stuff" ... well, it was my own, but I now know what its like :) .... hows that for private?
but still, thats just the most private thing I admit to for anyone to see... you'll have to get to be a close friend or more to get the juicy stuff, lol ;)

I like the natural smell of a woman… her armpits, her feet, her more intimate areas… I find it much more erotic, alluring, enticing than perfumes or lotions. It also seems to be something that makes me feel emotionally closer, like smelling my partner is me breathing in her essence ...Of course stink is another matter. There is a difference between musky aroma and foul body odor.
You should message me if
if you're attracted to me... if you have any questions or positive comments... if you so desire... you don't have to want to be more than friends to say hello... but if interest for possible future intimacy is there then let it be known... at least eventually....

Even though an actual deep romatic relationship is my ultimate desire, if i'm not in one, it is nice to have someone fun to hang around with and at least enjoy safe carnal pleasures with someone trusted until that ONE finally comes along