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My self-summary
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Let's just slow down here a bit, shall we? First, I'm in your quiver, then you're looking at my profile. This is all a bit sudden, don't you think?

First off, you should know that I am married, and in an open relationship. If this is a huge turn off for you, then I've just saved you a bunch of time. You are most welcome.

If not, then I suppose I'll make an attempt at a Self Summary. Unfortunately, every time I start to write one, I feel like an enormous, self-absorbed ass. I suppose feeling that way is normal, unless you really ARE a self-absorbed ass. I mean, if you were, how would you know?

I spend a lot of time thinking about second guessing myself.

Ooh. That's good. I should have saved that one for further down.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking things literally. For instance, I really should just write in "hanging out with my friends and having fun! LOL"

Instead, this section is a cause for great self reflection. What AM I doing with my life? Then I pour some wine and stare into space for a long time. This question makes me uncomfortable.
I’m really good at
Avoiding straight answers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really quiet. I find people fascinating and I listen. Unfortunately, there is a fine line between "interested quiet guy" and "creepy lurker." Most of what I have going on is inside my head, and I assure you only some of it is thinking about undressing you.

Otherwise, I'm really good at going unnoticed. Ooh. I should have said that above.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - science fiction, but kind of old science fiction. I like reading what people in the past thought about the future. Jules Verne wrote a story about launching a spaceship to the moon a 100 years before Apollo, from Florida, with 3 people, and it splashed down in the Pacific Ocean. He got some things wrong too. His astronauts opened a window while in orbit and everything was just fine.

Food - I'm not a picky eater, and I enjoy many varieties. My wife is more of a foodie. She can tell you where to find a GOOD tiramisu. I'm just happy to cram the yummy sugary treat into my pie hole.
Six things I could never do without
Really? Fine. Let's say... matches. Six of them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Mostly work, I guess. My brain likes a good problem.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night. I'm happy to be a homebody or socialize with friends. Either is good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My OKC name is my phone number. I don't know why I know that. I think I was just bored one day and spelled it out. I like it cause it's weird and also sounds kinda dirty.
You should message me if
You can message me for any reason that tickles you. If you write to me, there's a good chance I'll write you back. For my own part, I tend to avoid writing to anyone I sense is looking for a long term partner in the traditional dating scenario. If I think you're cool, I'd like to get to know you better, and it's as simple as that.
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