27Tempe, United States
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My self-summary
My life is following the plot of The Picture of Dorian Gray.

Empathetic, goofy, gregarious, insatiable, open minded, talkative, creative, and kind.

I understand the importance of being Earnest.

I like playing the host. I make great cocktails. I cherish my friends. I dance in the kitchen to 80s music. I love board games. I take my karaoke seriously. Die Hard is my favorite Christmas movie.
What I’m doing with my life
Bartending, writing, painting.

Just spent a couple of years in Brooklyn. I had my first art show go up while I was there, and I sold a couple of painting, so I'm excited about that.

Always looking to make new friends. I'm open minded, warm, generous, goofy, upbeat. Word of warning: I tend to talk a lot - except on days when I don't talk at all.
I’m really good at
Making friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wilde, Bukowski, Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Poe.

Casablanca, Seven Psychopaths, Charade, Bladerunner, Memento.

STRANGER THINGS, Twin Peaks, Bob's Burgers, Battlestar Glactica, WILTY, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver.

Queen, Bowie, Adam Ant, Otis Redding, Roy Orbison.
Six things I could never do without
Good dialogue
Pilot G-2 (05 or 07)
Pictures of pitbulls
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A handful of times in my life, I've had these intense, beautiful, emotionally honest, thrilling, impossible conversations with someone - we end up staying out all day or we end up staying up all night. The dialogue is clever, the jokes land, the confessions ring true. Suddenly you want to kiss the other person so badly but it takes you an hour to get around to it because you're trying to adequately convey the intensity of your desire.

Most of the times I've dated someone or had sex, I haven't experienced this kind of conversation.

I think maybe - even though I can't force a conversation like this to happen, and I don't know when (if ever) I will find another person I can talk to like this - maybe I need this to be truly happy and fulfilled in a relationship (or even a briefer experience). I'm going to be holding out for that, now. If I can.

Sometimes this conversation isn't spoken, it can also be written, in letters feverishly penned and days of checking the mailbox every two hours.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. I work a lot. I have some big plans for the next 7 years, and I'm going to have to bust my ass to accomplish them.
You should message me if
You got this far. You value experiences more if they leave you with an interesting narrative. You love karaoke. You like strategy board games. You want to meet my cool friends. You like reading. You have secrets. You write letters. You want to start a secret society with me. You think I'm beautiful.

P. S. I need a workout/hiking buddy. If you look at me and think "yeah I could keep up with this guy and this guy could keep up with me" then we should hit the gym. Or Camelback.
The two of us