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My self-summary
Like everyone I find it difficult to write profiles and not sound lame or just everyone else. I asked a female friend if she could give me her take on me to help get me started. What she said about me was the most concise and insightful summation of who I am that another person has ever given me:

“You know why facts matter..Your knowledge is not reveled at first, you do not brag or gush, you let things come out as if we were peeling back layers.

You are calm and centered...even when you don't feel that way, you appear it on the surface

There is a devilish sense of excitement that comes out when you are comfortable with someone

You are a lover of print...the word has meaning to you. There is something graceful in a leather covered spine embraced between your hands and you understand that.

You are kind, gentle, but have a strength about are not a push over
your interests are varied and broad

You are good at.....supporting other people in their dreams,
remembering what people say to you and coming back later with a book, web site, information that would add to what they spoke to you listen...really listen…
finding the thing that is funny in a bad situation”

Other than that all I can say is that I am equal parts, traveler, lover, adventurer, warrior, scholar, teacher and above all else a student…always wanting to know more.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure out what it is all about. I have a full-time job with a public library.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, making them feel loved, and lifting their spirits. Bringing people together.

Cooking! I enjoy food, cooking, resturants. Like everyone food is wrapped up in memories for me and it was my mother who taught me how to cook.

Did I mention "sarcasm"? I work in sarcasm like an artist works in oils or water-colors.
The first things people usually notice about me
I asked a female friend this question and she said "You have a wonderful smile and beautiful eyes. You might want to leave out any parts about your penis here, just saying." So I won't mention my penis, unless I just did. Damn.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Rough question to ask a librarian! Easier to ask me what I don't like! I read a lot Non-fiction, indeed I write reviews for History books. I also like Travel, Cooking, memoirs, some science stuff. For pleasure I like fiction and especially Science Fiction and Fantasy.

Favorite authors include: Terry Pratchett, Calos Ruiz Zafron, Neil Gaiman, Steven Pressfield, Patrick Rothfuss, Brandon Sanderson, Scott Lynch, D. M. Cornish, Bernard Cornwell, Guy Gavieral Kay, John Scalzi, Scott Lynch, Bill Bryson, Anthony Bourdain, Barbara Tuchman, David Weber, Malcolm Gladwell, David Sedaris and so, so many more.

Favorite TV shows: Top Chef, Top Gear, Archer, South Park, Venture Bros., Breaking Bad, Chopped, No Reservations, Battlestar Galactica, Stargate Universe, Firefly, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Louie, Futurama, Daily Show, Colbert Report, 30 Rock, Farscape

I love all kinds of movies, especially foreign films, art house, and documentaries.

I also enjoy the theater and other shows. I have quite a few friends in burlesque troupes and I love a good show!

I'm a foodie and love trying new foods and resturants.
Six things I could never do without
My cat!
Access to my account (Yes, it still counts as reading!)
A really good spice rack (with the right seasoning even a shoe could be be edible.)
A few close friends
Someone special
SEX! (Did I get your attention :) )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends or a special person. Maybe a movie or a show. I'm also fond of a night in with a movie, a pizza, and blanket to snuggle under.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a nice guy with a kinky side! You want to know more you have to ask!
You should message me if
If you are geeky, fun, caring, like to try new things, got a joke to share, a book to recommend, or if you are willing to take a chance.

I saw this on someone else's profile and liked it so much I stole it!
-you don't take religion seriously (if "God fearing" appears anywhere in your profile, don't bother contacting me)

If you are not looking for an average vanilla relationship.
The two of us