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My self-summary
My name is Jake, I'm a father to an amazing little boy (12/2/14) I'm single and looking for something real and someone who will be good with my son. Currently I am a licensed massage therapist, it's a career I love and I get to meet and help new people every day, which is very rewarding. Besides that I work in a grocery store to fill up the rest of my week. I tend to be more laid back, I can be a major comedian at times, but I know when it's time to be serious. Trust, respect and loyalty are a big thing with me, everyone comes to me to talk because I never repeat anything and unless you ask for it, I'll keep my thoughts to myself. I'm a straight shooter, no BS kinda guy, I'll speak my mind, I'm very honest, rather hurt with the truth than kill with a lie.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for a soulmate, best friend, partner in crime, preferably all in one person.

I am a licensed massage therapist, and I also work part time for one of my local grocery stores.

-Graduated from Cheshire High School in 2006,
-Attended NVCC for 2 years.
-I graduated from Branford Hall Career Institute (Massage Therapy Program) with a 3.7 GPA in 2015

Martial arts really interests me, I'm currently experienced in Karate, Kung Fu, Muay Thai, Wing Chung, Thai Chi and Ninjutsu. I'd like to learn Judo, Qi Gong, Aikido, Krav Maga, Taekwondo, Brazillian Jujitsu, Tang Soo Do and Capoeira. I don't want to learn these to hurt people, I simply find beauty in how the body moves and I believe every person should know how to defend themselves if they need to do so. Also it helps me stay active and young.

Also I have an interest in foreign language, I've managed to learn enough Spanish to have a conversation with people. I'm also in the process of trying to learn Sign Langauge, I also know some Italian. I'm interested in learning German, Latin, French, Chinese, Japanese, Portuguese, Polish and Greek .

In my free time I spend most of it with my son, otherwise I'm with friends, giving massages, eating (I like to do that) playing video games, or out on the town. I've also taken an interest in Yoga. Also when I'm out with my friends, I'm cracking jokes and making people laugh until it hurts. I've got a passion for video games and good shows/movies
I’m really good at
Being a dad, my son is my world and I make that very clear.

Being myself, I don't fake who I am for anyone or any situation. I'm respectful and polite, I'm a comedian, a listener. I like to help people out as long as they don't take advantage. I speak my mind no matter what it is or who it's directed towards.

Being a good friend from what I'm told, my friends feel that they can come to me with any secret and it will be safe.

I'm really honest and I'll say what needs to be said weather you like it or not.

Making people laugh. Friends and family always call me up when they need a good laugh, and I'll gladly try to help out.

My jobs. I'm very new at my career but so far my office and clients seem very pleased with me. When you go into a place and feel really positive energy, you're more motivated to put you're all into it.
My grocery store job I've been at for over 6 years and have become a jack of all trades. I actually enjoy going out of my way for my customers and my co workers, most of them are pretty cool. I make sure to keep professional at my jobs but I don't leave who I am at the door, I'll say what I have to say and joke with regulars and co workers.
The first things people usually notice about me
-I love my son more than words could ever say.
-I'm not tall, only about 5'3.
-My eyes.
-I'm very random.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like Stephen King a lot, I also read a lot of text books from school, or anything I could learn something new from.

Movies: Anything, I'm a big movie person, I prefer Comedies and Action. I can get into anything though.

Family Guy, WWE, Steve Wilkos, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead. Also anything on Animal Planet, Discovery, Science Channel or Nat Geo.

Music: Anything really, but I'm most passionate about metal.

Food: Pizza is my weakness.
Six things I could never do without
1) My Son

2) My loved ones

3) Education

4) Food

5) Goals

6) Video Games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My son.

My future mainly, I constantly wish I knew where it was going and what I will become. I want to know how the decisions I make today will affect me tomorrow.

I also spend a lot of time looking back at the mistakes I've made in the past. I try to figure out what exactly I did wrong, what I could have done better, and what I could do to prevent it from happening again.

I put a lot of thought into every possible outcome to try and make sure I make the best decisions I can.
On a typical Friday night I am
I spend Friday nights with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes when I'm feeling down, I watch chick flicks and eat chocolate frosting out of the can.
You should message me if
You're looking for new friends, want to get to know me and see where that goes, or just bs with conversation
The two of us