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My self-summary
My name is Jake, I'm a father to an amazing little boy (12/2/14) who I love more than words could ever tell. I have a beautiful girlfriend named Jeanne (5/12/16). I'm a licensed massage therapist, it's a career I love and I get to meet and help new people every day, which is very rewarding. I tend to be more laid back, I can be a major comedian at times, but I know when it's time to be serious. I'm really good with secrets and most people come to me about them, I never repeat what's told to me. I'm a straight shooter, no BS kinda guy, I'll speak my mind, I'm very honest, rather hurt with the truth than kill with a lie. As I've stated before, I have a girlfriend and I'm only here to make friend and have intelligent conversation, so hit me up if you'd like.
What I’m doing with my life
Happily taken (5/12/16)

I am a licensed massage therapist, and I also work part time for one of my local grocery stores

-Graduated from Cheshire High School in 2006,
-Attended NVCC for 2 years.
-I graduated from Branford Hall Career Institute (Massage Therapy Program) with a 3.7 GPA in 2015.

I'm also studying forms of martial arts, I'm currently experienced in Karate, Kung Fu, Muay Thai, Wing Chung, Thai Chi and Ninjutsu. I'd like to learn Judo, Aikido, Krav Maga, Taekwondo, Brazillian Jujitsu, Tang Soo Do and Capoeira. I don't want to learn these to hurt people, I simply find beauty in how the body moves and I believe every person should know how to defend themselves if they need to do so.

Also I have an interest in foreign language, I've managed to learn enough Spanish to have a conversation with people. I'm also in the process of trying to learn Sign Langauge, I also know some Italian. I'm interested in learning German, Latin, French, Chinese, Japanese, Portuguese, Polish and Greek .

In my free time I spend most of it with my son, otherwise I'm with friends, giving massages, eating (I like to do that) playing video games, or out on the town. I've also taken an interest in Yoga.
I’m really good at
Being a dad, my son is my world and I make that very clear.

Being myself, I don't fake who I am for anyone or any situation. I'm respectful and polite, I'm a comedian, a listener. I like to help people out as long as they don't take advantage. I speak my mind no matter what it is or who it's directed towards.

Being a good boyfriend to my girlfriend. I tell her she's beautiful every day and treat her the way she should be treated. I am old fashioned as in being a gentleman, holding doors, carrying the heavy things, offering to pay, writing her love notes and really listening when she talks.

Being a good friend from what I'm told, my friends feel that they can come to me with any secret and it will be safe.

I'm really honest and I'll say what needs to be said weather you like it or not.

Making people laugh. Friends and family always call me up when they need a good laugh, and I'll gladly try to help out.

My jobs. I'm very new at my career but so far my office and clients seem very pleased with me. When you go into a place and feel really positive energy, you're more motivated to put you're all into it.
My grocery store job I've been at for over 5 years and have become a jack of all trades. I actually enjoy going out of my way for my customers and my co workers, most of them are pretty cool. I make sure to keep professional at my jobs but I don't leave who I am at the door, I'll say what I have to say and joke with regulars and co workers.
The first things people usually notice about me
-I love my son more than words could ever say.
-I'm not tall, only about 5'3.
-My eyes.
-I'm very random.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like Stephen King a lot, I also read a lot of text books from school, or anything I could learn something new from.

Movies: Anything, I'm a big movie person, I prefer Comedies and Action. I can get into anything though.

Family Guy, WWE, Steve Wilkos, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead. Also anything on Animal Planet, Discovery, Science Channel or Nat Geo.

Music: Anything really, but I'm most passionate about metal.

Food: Pizza is my weakness.
The six things I could never do without
1) My Son

2) My loved ones

3) Education

4) Food

5) Goals

6) Video Games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My son.

My future mainly, I constantly wish I knew where it was going and what I will become. I want to know how the decisions I make today will affect me tomorrow.

I also spend a lot of time looking back at the mistakes I've made in the past. I try to figure out what exactly I did wrong, what I could have done better, and what I could do to prevent it from happening again.

I put a lot of thought into every possible outcome to try and make sure I make the best decisions I can.
On a typical Friday night I am
I spend Friday nights with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes when I'm feeling down, I watch chick flicks and eat chocolate frosting out of the can.
You should message me if
You're looking for new friends or just good conversation.