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My self-summary
Everyone's a "sapiosexual" now; I guess we're all getting the hots for Kant and Nietzsche. Go girl! Get you some neocortex! The other day I was going over some differential equations...but what the hell is a Demisexual? Hey, it could be worse, given our clown car politics. How about showing your eyes so one might discern an iota of attraction? It's 2017.

Please don't take my rambling stream-of-consciousness profile as inviting long rambling texts. It triggers me, yes, and I'm having issues with social media and people's boundaries (or lack of), as I'm sure most women can relate to getting a cruder flavor of that than I ever would.

Ok, I'm very passionate about music (public radio dj) and especially piano. Also a slew of other instruments depending on my access to them. Music is my spiritual practice and holistic art, beyond the boundaries of classical and popular and traditional. I'm excited about how music is an integral piece of each of our brains and human evolution and in a child's growth. But then I consider the Idiocracy trajectory for the United States, and that excitement gets tempered.

Merry prankster/warrior: I give myself permission to be myself, my truest, highest, brightest, sexiest self, and in doing so allow and invite others to be their truest, highest, brightest, sexiest selves. I am a heart centered, multisensory sensualist GenX'er. Deal with it.

I have zero time for superficiality but respect how things take time in the real world. And how our Brave New World internet is making information useless. I find myself annoyed by Millenial habits: please stop getting offended at the slightest pretext and no, you don't need to write a fucking Yelp review for everything under the sun.

I care about my kid more than anything else in the entire world. I'm an LMT, focusing on Lomi Lomi in upcountry Maui. It's truly life changing, learning ho'oponopono and ho'omana and sharing this ancient tradition with people, working toward a sustainable Maui.

Masculine yet feminine, yin yet yang, idealistic yet realistic, metrosexual yet good ol' boy, new-age yet old-school, analog yet digital, breakbeat yet backbeat, hipster yet dorkster, warrior yet clown... looking for a superhero goddess who transcends the normal, wants to bite deep into me and taste the nectar of inspired collaboration on many levels...

"does this mean he's looking for a relationship or just a hook up?" Swipe left or right or up or down, swipe swipe swipe... Spambots. Mmmm. Flush. Go sit and get back to breathing.
What I’m doing with my life
Lomi Bodywork

Playing as much music as I can:

Radio DJing has helped me crystallize my focus.

Recording and promoting my folks' amazing art.

Being a papa to a wonderful little keiki and uncle to his buddies.
I’m really good at
arpeggios... being purple, obsequious , and clairvoyant...being a loving, providing father... piano, guitar, drums... tele-skiing (which I dearly miss)...dancing... tech support for my parents, acting like I know what I'm talking about...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty loud for a quiet guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Howdy Doodie: Man or Myth?...Ceremony For A Fat Lip... This Is Your Brain on Music...Renegade Nuns On Wheels...Where The Sidewalk Ends...
How To Make Money Off The Mentally Ill

I love that technology has broadened our musical world, yet I fear the language of music is dying. I dig most music, yet especially:

-Cheech & Chong when Cheech wears a tutu
-West Coast tribal werdness
-Very loud live acid rock from the late 60's/early 70's (Hendrix/The Who/Bowie)
-80's surf punk
-Haydn, Bach, Beethoven, Mahler, Mussorgsky, Chopin, Ravel, Rachmaninoff
-Ellington, Jobim, Coltrane, Miles, Monk, Mingus, Marsalis, Metheny, Mays, Jarrett; ECM label (special prize if you know what I'm referring to.)

Movies: I miss the 70's. Chinatown was awesome. Steve McQueen, American Graffiti, Close Encounters...Into The Wild

Food: Organic/no processed crap; whole foods, free range, some raw. Monsanto rot in hell. I have no time for dogmatic vegans either.

Kill your television. Read a book. Go for a hike. (I like Peaky Blinders & other great series on nflix, though).
Six things I could never do without
my son is not a thing, yet is the numero uno in my life
>5 more: music, snow (I know, wtf am I doing in Hawaii?!), sensuality, beautiful women, childlike fun, humor, my community (festivals, etc), mad genius, my patagonia puffball parka, coconut water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
c#m #9 #5, wait... the #9 is the 3, so you really can't have a minor #9! G flat maj13 flat 5, G7#5, Amaj9, Fmaj7#11, Cm flat5/F, Bdim, G/C ... Ravel, I can't get Ravel's Piano Works out of my head... where can I find a piano? a soulmate with a piano? maybe she has a Bechstein...

I wonder why we're such a bipolar society. I wonder why the Right wants to win and the Left wants to be right. I could write several theses on this shit, really.

Then, there's women and all their astral bliss... I wonder why we are a culture that sanctions violence and proscribes sensuality. Yeah, I'm waiting for women to rule the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
I used to wonder why everyone stays in on Friday night. That was when I was hitting the underground parties all the time, before I had a kid or before I knew what was important. These days... wishing I had a kind, sweet, adorable woman to snuggle with or go out with or to worship in tantric ritual...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I have an almost adolescent fear of not fitting in with the cool kids...
You should message me if
You're recovered from your deeper traumas. I've been the rescuer far too long.

Attraction counts and you don't mind weird without crazy (or maybe it's vice-versa), you're open minded and accepting of my peculiar nature and creative genius, you are unconventional and ready to play with a raw, open book of a person. You are childlike instead of childish.

You do not have typical mainstream American hang ups about sex and sensuality (or anything else, for that matter) while you do not go off the deep end the other way and wear it on your sleeve... maybe I need a European woman...or one with European sensibilities... or maybe AusKiwiZa (even though you'd drink me under the table and look at me stoneface).

And, going for broke: You are a goddess who likes my flights of fancy about music schools, art, neuroplasticity, canned craft beer, cold brew coffee, saving Hawaii from nitrogen tap wells, and my cartoon series that will take the world by storm, you see "fooling around" as a good thing... and you relish the notion to be an amazing auntie (not a step mom) to the most adorable, incredible little being on the planet. Ok, maybe I'm mirroring some things for a woman, like adult interdependence awareness and all that. Life's too short not to try to evolve together.
The two of us