65Spring Hill, United States
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My self-summary
Very Easy going; Fun to be around, Conservative, Hopeful Romantic, Tactile, Free Spirited, Affectionate and very much a Gentleman. Looking for a Caucasian, Tall or can be tall in heels, with a Slim to Athletic Build, a Lady in every aspect of the word. Not a woman who thinks she is a lady, but knows she is.
Not here to impress anyone with a job title anymore since being retired, more of a "what you see is what you get" type of individual. Married once for 12 years and now have been divorced for 26 years. Please do not read anything into this, when I find the right Lady, I will get married again, if she so desires. Engaged twice but it seems whenever a ring is on a woman's finger, she does a 180 degree shift and starts telling me what to and what not to do.. That's Not Right.. Believing a Man should be made of Steel and Velvet. He should be a Gentleman always, that never lets anyone intimidate him.
Maybe this is why finding someone to share my life is so difficult, when stating exactly my wants and needs. Once people reach age of 60, we are only on this earth for another 25-30 years. I want to enjoying what little time we have left. Come on, being 6 foot 3 inches tall and looking for a Lady who likes to wear heels when we go out, Slim to Athletic looking, that eats healthy, likes to exercise and stay in shape is to much to ask?
Love to dance, especially East Coast Swing (Jitterbug), It's a great way to exercise and it's FUN.
NOT looking for perfection but someone who is pleasing to my eye, as well as my heart, and please be comfortable in your own skin. We are hopefully not giggling about this.. are we?
It was told to me "Love isn't about finding the Perfect Person... It's about seeing the Imperfect Person, Perfectly."
If you are ready for a real relationship, then please contact me, Looking more for my forever. Love long walks anywhere with the right person, even in the rain, enjoy cooking but not for one and also love to shop. They say that the eyes are the windows to the soul so when we look into each others eyes, would them to smile back at me with warmth. The eyes can speak volumes without ever uttering a single sound. Talk to my eyes though yours so we can finally see if we have the right chemistry. Looking for someone around my age for compatibility, plus someone who can think young, act young and also dress young.
If you were sick in bed with the flu, I would retrieve the flu medicine from the medicine cabinet, make you chicken soup, and tuck you in bed for the night, knowing that you would do the same for me.
Compromise is what we all strive for. We are all looking for that special person to share our lives with but are we willing to compromise on minor issues?
I like to think of the 3 C's Comfort-ability, Communication and Compromise is basically all we need, even though the Beatles sang "All you need is Love". Communication being key to all.
The kind of books read are Positive Books, mind enriching books. Yes, look for the positive in everything. Being an Eternal Optimist, and always look for the good in everyone, but remembering to “Never Treat Someone Like A Priority, If They Treat You Like An Option.” Am looking forward to becoming someones Priority.
Always been the type that will do whatever it takes, and remember what my Dad used to tell me, "If it is to be, it's up to me".
Passion makes the world go round and love just makes it a nicer place. Inside of me there is a place where my dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. To dream of love and being happy more than any other thought, makes my day brighter. Knowing ones thoughts are only a reflection of the loving hopes of my heart and they keep me alive.
Yes, a Nerd and proud of it.

Now that you have made it this far, What do you think?

Update 2015
Getting tired of the bar scene just looking to be Happy and to have someone in my life that will love me as much as I will her. Do not want to do the long evenings anymore would rather be in bed by Midnight, snuggling than staying out. Looking for someone to enjoy life with.
Freemasonry has become a large part of my life. Learning about the men I only knew as heroes to me as a child, the Founding Fathers of our Country, I now refer as Brothers of mine, which gives me a whole new perspective on life and history.
Amazingly, women still look for money than happiness. I am not rich in money by any means but I am rich in friends which are worth more to me than any amount of cash. I can pay my bills and as long as you can too we will have no disagreement. I go out to dinner a couple times a month, I would rather cook at home and enjoy the relaxed atmosphere at home. I have found that most things in life worth sharing are free. If you are still hung up on the all mighty dollar then please pass me by I figure by this age we have less than 30 years left, and I want to enjoy what little time God has given me with someone who I can Love and be shown Love in return. I want someone who will be there for me as much as I am there for them. There is nothing wrong with me and am in good health, but would like to share my life with someone who deserves happiness as I do.
Moved to Spring Hill to help taking care of my soon to be 90 year old Mother, which i do not live with but live 5 minutes from her, my focus is basically on taking care of her although I do have time for myself. Looking for someone who wants a relationship not just thinks she does. Please don't waste my time or yours if you are not looking to make a serious effort. Looking for an intimate Love who is also looking for the same.
I will never understand why a woman will say that they will never contact a man, I guess they just are looking for a free meal and that's all. If someone gives you their number they want you to call.
What I’m doing with my life
I did have 39 years in Information Technology but unfortunately I did not leave it, it left me so instead of crying over it, I decided to do something about my situation and use my other degree. This is not where I wanted to be at this time in my life. I am telling you this because if you are looking to have someone take care of you then please pass me by. If you are looking to enjoy the rest of our lives together, then maybe we should talk.
I’m really good at
Dancing especially East Coast Swing and other ballroom dancing Styles. I have been told that I am a strong lead when it comes to dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Height, my Smile and my Hazel Eyes. That I have a Yellow Halo around each pupil, sort of gives the look of a cats eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I Love most foods Chinese, American, and Italian. As for music I listen from the 1930's, 1940 Swing to the 80's music also Love rock and roll, Blues, Swing, and Jazz. I cannot stand rap that is not music but spoken words. If rappers had to stop using swear words, rap would no longer exist.
As for books I have read Zig Ziglars "See you at the Top" and "The Art of War" by Sun Tzu.
As for movies I like a Comedy, Action, Sci-fi, or even a nice Romantic movie now and then, but only in the company of a lady. As for Shows, when I lived in Jacksonville I always went to the Alhumbra, which is a dinner Theater. I am looking for another place now but as of yet have not found the venue.
Six things I could never do without
Happiness, Love, Honesty, Trust, Integrity, and my
Sleep Number Bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Taking a cruise and finding someone to share life with. I've never been on a cruise because I do not want to go alone I would rather go with someone who means something to me.
Someone wanting me for me and not what I have or do not have.
Getting a hug for no reason.
Finding Love, being in Love and being Loved in return.
Its easy to say I Love You but it's harder to show that you love someone, this is something I have been running into
On a typical Friday night I am
Why Fridays now that I am Retired Friday can be any day to me
there is Nothing Typical about me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, but I am proud of my heart. It's been played, stabbed, cheated, burned and broken but somehow still works.
I will answer any question you ask.
You should message me if
If you are looking to enjoy the rest of our lives together, then maybe we should talk. I just want to be Happy and enjoy my remaining years upon this earth. Why worry about all the unimportant things in life and just be happy,
The two of us