I'm married to red_velvet_lines, we are open and have been for years. I'm not so much "poly" in that I don't want intense romantic relationships, but I enjoy making connections and being intimate with people who are smart, respectful, and funny.
Left wing, Chaotic Good, atheist, feminist, poly and kink friendly. GGG.
I'm insanely passionate about math education, so much so that I moved across the country to work for an organization I believe in, and have the opportunity for some leadership. I can also get fired up about music, politics, and food.
In the past I taught math to prison inmates, worked as a bike messenger, played ultimate, performed stand-up comedy, and snowboarded obsessively. Currently I'm starting over again post doctorate.
For every 15 messages I send, I get one reply. For every 10 replies, I get one person to agree to a date. For every 5 dates agreed to, I get 1 who actually shows up. So, I have to send 750 messages to get a date.
Whereas, I reply to 9/10 first messages, I ask 9/10 who respond to meet up, and when a date/time is confirmed, I show up 10/10 times.
What this means is, if you think you might like to meet me, you are much better off messaging me first rather than visiting a bunch in the hope that I'll send something. Because I'm busy sending 750 messages to get a date, but I could be replying to yours.