41 Flushing, United States
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My self-summary
***Back in NYC for 6 months on a work contract! I'm in a nonprofit doing something managerial enough that I don't have set hours or regular lunch breaks. Living in Flushing and working in the Flatiron district.***

I'm married to red_velvet_lines, we are open and have been for years. I'm not so much "poly" in that I don't want intense romantic relationships, but I enjoy making connections and being intimate with people who are smart, respectful, and funny.

Left wing, Chaotic Good, atheist, feminist, poly and kink friendly. GGG.

I'm insanely passionate about math education, so much so that I moved across the country to work for an organization I believe in, and have the opportunity for some leadership. I can also get fired up about music, politics, and food.
What I’m doing with my life
Just got my doctorate!!!

Teaching math.

In the past I taught math to prison inmates, worked as a bike messenger, played ultimate, performed stand-up comedy, and snowboarded obsessively. Currently I'm starting over again post doctorate.
I’m really good at
Waking up three minutes before the alarm goes off
Being honest
Being kind
Fixing bicycles
Algebraic topology
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm charming the pants off 'em.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I grew up with Springsteen the same way most people grow up with church. I've determined that London Calling is the greatest rock & roll album ever recorded and I dare anyone to prove otherwise. I read Discworld and Carl Hiaasen and nerdy nonfiction (math/science/psychology). I love to cook: omelettes, tacos, pizza, carnitas, steak, carbonara, paella, pork burgers, banh mi, pho. I like movies with chainsaws and boobs, and shows where men call each other "cunt."
The six things I could never do without
Slow cooker, bicycle, record player, fishing pole, sunglasses, flip flops.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The uneasy balance between the individual and the group.
On a typical Friday night I am
Unplugging my brain.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was once stripped naked and teased onstage by a stripper in a strip club in Barcelona (on the strip). Unlike several other victims, I managed to maintain my... Composure.

My fetlife is DrAwesomeThing, which was funny when Draw Something was a thing.
You should message me if
You find my pictures and profile attractive. Duh. Or if you are willing to bet that I'm decent-looking in person and can't get a good pic for the life of me.