41 Salt Lake City, United States
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My self-summary
What to say about me...I have never been good at talking about me. I guess I'll start with the fact that I'm not looking for new relationships and I'm almost never on here anymore.
I am married to a great guy, in a polyamorous relationship. We are not trying to fill some void, repair a damaged relationship, or spice up our marriage. We simply believe that life is too big and it is completely possible to love more than one person. We have decided together what we will and will not do, and where our personal boundaries lie.
Let's get this out of the way right now, I WILL NOT respond to one sentence messages. If you can't be bothered to say more than "Hi" or "wanna meet up" don't bother at all.
I like music of all kinds with very few exceptions and love to read. I am a huge movie fan, and honestly, I even like the bad ones best.
I Used to do a weekly podcast with a couple of my girl friends, talking about all things geeky. We were the first such podcast in our area, and the podcast itself is still doing well. Unfortunately, life got in the way for me, and I am on long-term sabbatical, with an option to return if I choose to.
I admit I am a bit secretive about my life with most of the general public, I live in Utah, what do you expect? I am not ashamed of who I am, I am very honest about who and what I am, but some things are private.
I recently was forced to stop playing roller derby after four years. I used to skate with the Red Rockettes Recreational league, and loved it. Derby is a lifestyle, and becomes an obsession, but injuries happen and I got hurt pretty badly, doing permanent damage to myself. I miss it intensely and still obsessively talk about it and watch as much as possible.
If you have read this and are still interested, check out my husband Myrddwn. I am definitely looking for interesting people to be friends with male or female, but I am not really sure about how much time I can devote to any further intimate relationships, since I'm working full time, and going to school. Also, I am EXTREMELY selective and I am NOT interested in booty calls.
I am snarky, curvaceous, and empathic
What I’m doing with my life
I'm on the hunt for a new obsession, since derby isn't possible anymore.
I have just taken the first steps on the pathway to a brand new career in IT.
I used to go dancing/clubbing fairly regularly, but as you can see, I am a pretty busy girl, and just don't have the time or money for it now...
I’m really good at
I am a great Mom, and I feel as though I can do more or less anything I try. I love to try new things.
I have been a musician since I was a small child and am somewhat proud of my meager talent.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to think it's my eyes. They are a lovely shade of green. Maybe the red hair. Possibly my style, I like to think that I have good taste. I wear clothes that are comfortable, but still flatter my style. My overall style is somewhat bohemian with elements of punk and goth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love high fantasy and terrible vampire/werewolf books. I love most kinds of movies, but currently favor bad horror movies. I am an avid fan of both American Horror Story and Walking Dead. My taste in TV tends to be a bit eclectic, from Bones to How I Met Your Mother to Big Bang Theory. I am a die hard Whovian and a bit of a whedonite. If you know what those terms mean, it's a good sign. I love music of all kinds, and love to eat healthy, well prepared food. I like ethnic food, Thai, Indian, Chinese, Lebanese.
I play Dungeons and Dragons every Saturday night with a group of my friends.
The six things I could never do without
1. family
2. a good book
3. good food
4. music
5. my awesome derby buddies!
6. My backyard swing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My kids. My job. life in general. Why co-workers' bad days, or crappy lives seem to always ruin my day. Seriously, why is it that someone else's bad mood has to take away my happiness, good mood, or just plain make me grouchy? Just because you hate your job, why can't I love mine?
Roller skating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Could be home with my kids, maybe out with one of the great men in my life. Out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There isn't much that I keep to myself. I am what I am and I don't have a lot of secrets, at least not with people who don't have control over my job.
I have a tendency to fall for the wrong person, with only one notable exception. Hard, fast, and stupidly in love. I am a hopeless romantic.
You should message me if
You have something to say and you are interested in being friends.This means JUST friends, I have a very full dance card right now and frankly don't have the time to even consider new partners. No phonies please, I prefer down to earth genuine people who know who they are and what they are getting into. I would love to hear from someone who is interested in being friends as described above. I am always interested in someone who just wants to talk or hang out or just chat via messages or e-mail.