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My self-summary
First, I have to say that I am very unhappy with the choices available here for sex, gender and sexual orientation. Very limiting!
I am a female-bodied, male-identified, queer, trans, guy. I am also a parent, a caretaker, a writer, a craftsman, a Pagan, a photographer, a lover, a fighter, a poet, a Dominant, a Daddi, a loving sadist, an understanding husband, a student of Life, a wolf in the night and, often, a pretty fucked up individual. I am an individual. I am unique. Just like everyone else.

Might as well throw in some key words here: queer trans BDSM Dominant Daddy Pagan wolf poetry leather photography poly erotica D/s gender sex

To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. -E.E. Cummings

I am Queer, Passionate, and Aware
What I’m doing with my life
Living, Learning, Laughing, Loving. Enjoying a queer, poly, D/s marriage. Taking photos. Making and selling custom leather restraints. Selling corsets, bondage gear, "novelties", and other fun stuff. And just trying to be a good person.
I’m really good at
(your profile is now being edited hehehe) I am great at making people comfortable.. accepting people for who they are.. supporting my friends and family.. intellectual discussions especially regarding gender, sexuality, and politics etc..making brownies.. burning the perfect cd..taking care of my girl.. sex..did I mention sex?.. (i could go on forever here but better stop editing now :) )
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd like to pretend that people immediately notice all things noble in Me (chivalry, sensitivity, courage, caring, honor, etc.), but in truth, it's probably My facial piercings, My short, stocky build, and/or short hair. *shrugs* Sometimes the good stuff just takes a little more time and effort to get to. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(A)Books! Oh,my! I love books! Anything by Anne Rice, Charles De Lint, Neil Gaiman, Pat Califia or Dorothy Allison. Stone Butch Blues changed My life!, Tipping the Velvet, Nothing but the Girl. (beautiful photos!), Tough Girls. As far as non-fiction, Slut!, Unrepentant Whore, and A Woman Like That were all good. And House of Leaves, can't forget that one. Oh, and Coyote Blue...and...well I could keep going, but I won't. (B) Sin City, was great, Natural Born Killers I liked. Requiem for a Dream, Spun, Labyrinth, Willow, Caveman's Valentine, Fight Club, Better Than Chocolate, Chocolat, Tipping the Velvet, Boys Don't Cry...all excellent movies. (C) I like some of almost all types of music. Kristy Lee, Melissa Ferrick, Beverly McClellan, Chris Pureka, Michelle Shocked, , Fiona Apple, Indigo Girls, Bitch and Animal, and LP are great. I also love Spoken Word Poetry; Athens Boys Choir and Alix Olson. I'm not big on rap, but I do like, Wyclef and God-Des. Not real big on country either but, Loretta Lynn,'s last album (with, Jack White) was awesome. As is Johnny Cash. Dave Matthews band is good. I also love System of a Down, MSI, and Nickelback. Oh, and I absolutely must not forget Coyote Grace ("Coyote" Joe Stevens- OUT Transman, is Awesome!) (D) I could live off falafel and chocolate.
Six things I could never do without
ummm...all the obvious stuff, of course, but also, books, music, laughter, intimacy, fantasy, and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, Philosophy, Morality, Sexuality, Gender, D/s, Sex, food, My responsibilities, and My family.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's no such thing as "typical" around here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think I've shared quite a bit, thank you, but if you were to have any questions...feel free. :)
You should message me if
You should message me if you want to. I like to meet people, with my interests, with different interests, here or there, either/or and what have you.
Other "queers" are of special interest. ;)
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