I am a good listener, fun-loving, and a beach bum
I have lived in San Francisco for about 7 years and am still getting to know the area. I know this is "gay mecca" but I'd really rather be outside in the beautiful nature spots of the bay area. I love to explore and my favorite places thus far include Point Reyes, the Marin Headlands, and many of the beaches up and down the coast. That doesn't mean I won't explore lesbian cultural events from time to time.
In my day job, I teach at San Francisco State University and love it there after spending many years at the University of Iowa in a much more conservative climate. I was an out lesbian there, but here I'm valued as an out lesbian who does LGBT research. Yea!
Food--anything not too spicy (alas, aging has taken a toll on my digestive system). I love to try new restaurants.
Music--mostly jazz vocals (Dinah Washington is an old favorite), but listen to lots of different types of music depending on mood, from Lady Gaga to Joan Armatrading, Tuck and Patty, Anita Baker, Acoustic Alchemy, black-eyed peas, Joni Mitchell...